Everyone is going to laugh at this question but if you have to really poop and you push too hard can the baby come out
How many months do i have to be to feel my baby move
We found out with a normal 2d ultrasound at 15 weeks, girl.
I found out the sex of my baby at 19 weeks, although my ultrasound tech said she could have made an educated guess at about 15 weeks. I had a Harmony test at about 11 weeks; which is a blood test that detects chromosomal abnormalities but it can also tell you the sex as early as you can take it (which is as so as you find out you are pregnant I think). But when I asked my OB/GYN about getting the sex from the Harmony test she said doctors will rarely reveal the sex of your baby before 16/17 weeks because some people will opt for abortions based on the sex results... crazy right! Congrats on the pregnancy
So you will be able to find out soon. Sometimes you can pay to have a 3d or 4d ultrasound (insurance won't cover it) if your really anxious. I've heard some people who find out at 14 or 15 weeks that way.
They usually do an anatomy scan around 18 weeks which is when you find out the sex. In some cases you can find out as early as 16 weeks but no earlier