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My baby daddy just took off

I don't know what to do he just took off while I was at work I feel so alone what kind of man just takes off on his girlfriend who is 7 months?
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My baby daddy left me when I was 2 months pregnant, I haven't heard from him since then. Trust me, you're better off without him. He's not man enough to handle his responsibilities so he runs instead
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Mine Left When I Told Him I Was Pregnant After We DECIDED To Have A Baby Together. Don't Stress Over It . It's Hard At First But Just Focus On Your Baby & It'll All Turn Out Fine .
#SingleMomsRock
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It's so sad how men are but it's for us women to stick together in encourage each other my baby daddy did the same was with him for 4years I have his two girls did everything I supposed to do buy his love cook clean did everything for him I was 8months pregnant in 2015 he left me for a 19year old his best friend Lil sister then got her pregnant I broke down I had my baby early because of the pain he spit in my face 3hours after I had his baby in the hospital it broke my heart the man I loved did all this to me it's been a year we haven't been together he did me wrong he use to beat on me and I still stayed stupid in love
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I really wish there was a website that could warn Women about men like this you know like a profile for deadbeat fathers  For unsuspecting women there's too much I'm just going on in the world today these posts alone can prove that I'm going through the exact same situation but in every single case the women have to stand strong while the men get to move on and repeat this time and time again without consequence repercussions and you can't consider them never getting to meet their children as a consequence because they do not consider that their own consequence no one makes them stand up for their actions no one makes them confront what they've done child support is only good if you can find them but in most cases men are pretty good at ducking child support they can slander our names and say they're not the father that were Unfaithful women at their discretion making themselves look like the victim to the next woman who herself probably has been abandoned by her own children's father but I feel like a website would do some justice help the next wman I meet if a website existed like this I'd be the first to look up his name they're no different from a repeat sex offender what they do in the end is traumatic overwhelming and stressful towards the victim it leaves them reliving what happened and they are left with a reminder of the traumatic experience and they never fully get to heal until the perpetrator is confrNoted like they're no different they take advantage of a woman and leave her in a state of significant despair each Individual woman deals with it in her own way some come out stronger than they started out but some can't let go of what happened to them because they know and deep down inside either way they did nothing wrong and they keep doing the right thing by standing as hard as it may be for their children as a little experiment use your ten fingers and count how many women you know in your own personal Circle this is  happened to you'll be surprised that you almost get to 10 or suppress it in my case in my own City it's a plague and like I said child support will only do so much because they are very much over  welmed
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Hope You can read what I said a lot of typos and some missing words but I hope you get the idea my thoughts are there is nothing that we can do to fix what's been broken but how can we as a collective group of women mothers Daughters sisters friends what can we do to prevent this because we don't want this as our future and we definitely don't want this for our daughter's future and let me not forget there are fathers out there that goes to the same thing how can we prevent this from deteriorating Our Generations to come Tupac said it best "Keep your head up" YouTube it His words are hunting and resonating
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A man who isn't worthy of you, or that child's life... I don't mean to be rude. But I'm about 8 months and the baby daddy doesn't ask about appointments and doesn't even life here anymore he moved to Iowa with a girl with 2 kids. His choice not to be there. Just like your man. He's choosing to walk away and he's choosing not to be there for you guys. aways honestly hunny. I'll tell you, you don't need a man to raise a beautiful healthy child. Yes, a father figure would be nice... but it's his loss and you'll get to experience all of the great memories yourself.  And he'll never get those back. Don't get me wrong. Co parenting is still an option. If he wants to be there.... your strong, your beautiful, and no matter what. You've got this. Don't let your head slip down... God would never throw you something you can't handle. I promise!!!!
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I can understand you honey,the pain is horrible you can't even sleep or breathe also too many mixed feellings dancing around your mind,you wanna die,you wanna  run you just think you can't do this or why is this happening to you...i can understand u cuz i was there...but there is good news...you can do it!!You're stronger then that this ****...you gonna be so good mommy and all this pain you going thru now it gonna pass...now you can't see the end but believe me something so good for you is on the way,just breath deeply,put your head high and lets start walking to the future....something better is coming..
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My baby daddy wanted another kid I didn't and i decided to stop using any protection and 5 days after we found out I was pregnant he left. You can't force them to be with you, let him go, I know it's hard and you might feel broken but focus on when your baby grows up he can say my mommy did everything for me no matter what came her way.
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My baby daddy took off at 12 weeks... It's rough but he did MY baby and I a favour.
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Take heart ok. Ur baby's needs u more. Life still goes on
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There is nothing that you can do to make him come back if that's not where he wants to be.
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I'm so sorry. But you got this. It will be hard but you can do it.
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He must have gave you some type of warning before today?
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No before we moved he put his stuff in storage and I asked why he said I don't want the kids to mess the stuff up he acted happy that the baby was coming and talked the other day about taking off from work to help with him
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How do you know he's gone for good ?
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He took all this clothes and belongings he won't even answer the phone
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Mine left me as well. Its hard but we gotta do what we gotta do for our kids. With or without a man.
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