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My brothers & dad !

My mom told my brothers last night by making a comment of my pregnancy accidentally because she thought I told them but I hadnt it. One was jus feeling bad because I hadnt told him and the other one was so so mad wanting to kill my boyfriend and highly disappointed in me. I tild my dad this morning, hes hurt and mad. He cried and wants to kill my boyfriend too. :(
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Thanks !!!! , they just want him to step and take the responsibility which im sure he will . They think that I am too young and smart to be pregnant instead of in school gettin degrees. Ill be 22 when I have the baby . Me and my bf have had our ups and downs and I guess theyre jus seeing the downs we had.
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Lol sounds like my case im 18 and am expecting my son im due in 10 days imagine how I felt my dad brought me to my appointment when I found out I was pregnant and I had to tell him before I told anyone else I didnt even have the chance to tell my mom first ... he immediately wanted to kill my boyfriend who ive been with for 3 years and now they get along really well sort of a love hate relationship they argue but they are both always there to help eachother my mother was happy knowing she was going to have a grandchild from me (doctors have told ne since I was 15 I wasnt ever able to have children) problems with my ovaries anyways your dad and brothers are protecting you .... my brother honestly didnt care about me getting pregnant but as for your boyfriend he needs to step up and be there for you 100%  and prove he is good enough for you good luck hun and congrats on your baby! :-)
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I must be weird, my brother was happy and excited. They like my husband and know he's a great guy who works hard to provide for his family. Are you younger, is that why they are upset?  I can't see anyone getting upset about their sibling being pregnant, unless they are young, or your bf is not a good guy.
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I have 6 brothers. I'm not the only girl I have 3 sisters also but I am the youngest from all. It wasn't easy for me to tell my brothers & dad that I was pregnant. But from all my brothers I only told 3, the other 3 my mom told them & she also told me dad. I guess because I didn't have the b**** to tell my dad. I was pretty surprised my brothers didn't get mad, they are very supportive & also my dad. Only one brother got mad/hurt when I barely told him but now he's over it & supportive.

Everything will be ok, don't worry. Their just being that way because their your brothers/dad & being protective over you. It's normal. Don't stress about it they will come around. :)
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That's pretty normal though gun.. They are the men in your lives and no one will ever be good enough for u in their eyes... But they may have good reason to feel like that about him in either case they clearly love u and if he is a good guy then they will come around... They're just being protective
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Is your boyfriend a bad guy or something?  Why aren't they happy about it?

Congrats to you by the way.
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