vent/advice

[jenn_210]

I was with my ex fiance for 5 years we have a 4 yr old and I'm 8 months pregnant about 2 months ago he decided to cheat and leave me for the other girl who cheated and left her husband of 8 years for my ex. My ex still tells me he's not with her and he loves me etc. But deep down I know that's not true because she made a fb using his last name as hers even though she's still legally married. Well anyways my ex came over yesterday telling me he wants to slowly start working things out with me that he wants his family back and he can't let me go. But he also said he doesn't want anyone to know and not to put anything out there...but he blocked me on fb and has her as a friend but says he doesn't use fb. Is he trying to hide us? Or am I being strung along?

[kanamotaya20]

Don't take him back. But work things out.  So that your kids won't have to be in a awkward or hostile situation. You deserve better. There's is no reason for him cheating on you. I wish you the best of luck hun

[MoaniG81]

Please don't let yourself and your children be mistreated by that jerk!! You are worth far more than that! They deserve to see their mother respected and treated right! I've been in similar situations with similar guys and it still hurts to leave them and it's hard to be a single mom but it's liberating and wonderful to not be with a jerk!

[tweet28]

Yes I agree, I think he's wants to keep playing game....if he is serious he should delete all that social media crap and focus on you....also don't accept to hide your relationship! Why would you?! He's the one who lost your trust so he should do whatever it takes to gain it back, and that means you are the one who has to set the rules not him.

[dianaexoh]

Both, is what it sounds like. He's trying to hide you so as to avoid her knowing and he's trying to string you along. He wants his cake and to eat it too.