Need Opinions!!

[Stephy143]

Im a first time mom, 21 years old and 19weeks along. So my "best friend" and I have drifted apart. I have mainly distanced myself because of her excessive foul language, her being disrespectful, as well as her frequent marijuana use. The influence she is giving her daughter isn't one I want around my baby boy...I feel awful for not talking to her, but she only calls when she needs something, also she hasn't wanted much to do with me since I've been pregnant. My hubby says I'm being too nice, but am wondering if any others have gone through this? I feel like I'm doing the right thing but why do I feel so guilty about it??? Any thoughts would be appreciated. TIA!!

[mesdjehd91611]

So I know how you are feeling in the friendship regard

[mesdjehd91611]

The women I asked to be my baby's godmother in may her and her 8 year old son got kicked out of their apartment so my husband and I let her move and haven't asked her to pay a dime we had to have another friend move in our other room and pay rent and utilities because I got put on bedrest in june, now me and my husband knew that she was just staying until she could find a cheap apartment she could afford and as of August 30th she found a place and got approved to move in on the 21st well come to find out the only reason she got approved was because the friend who IS paying us rent and utilities is also going to be moving with her and neither of them were going to tell us and she even told her 8 year old son to keep it a secret from us... After she moves out on the 21 we probably won't be talking to her much if at all because we feel that both of them stabbed us in the back considering they both know that me and my hubby really really need the help considering we are close to 4 months behind on car payments and are being threatened that the cars going to get repoed I'm due in 25 days and won't be able to go back to work close to December if not the first of the year so with all the bills we have currently we really needed the paying friend to stay and they both know that

[casvega0212]

You win some you loose some. You are becoming a parent an u want what's best for your child don't feel guilty. If she was a friend an half as parent as you your point of views would be the same. You will really find out who are your true friends at this point in your life. Good luck hope it all works out.