Overwhelmed

[chely716]

I just dont know how to feel about this anymore , im 31 weeks and im just being put down and stepped on by my babydaddy , when it comes to spending time with him and us being together im always like the second option because his first option is to be wit his friends drinking or smoking , it really bothers me because im just here waiting to see when its my time and unfortunately he dont ever make time for me , there will be a random day where he takes me out to eat or etc and after that he feels like that was enough and i dont get anymore attention until he really feels like giving me the attention again i dont know if im overreacting or not but i cant find the right way to talk to him either

[angelface1996]

Sorry to hear this I went through this with my son's father best thing to do is tell him if he feels he cant handle haveing a kid then u are not ganna push him to be there and if he agrees leave and put that *** on child support and live ur life like a strong loving independent mama you are doing good keep ur head up babes u got this

[weldermom]

there is no right way to do it, just let him know how you feel, you should beable to do this with your SO