Pathetic

[slytherinbaby]

A week and a half ago my bf broke up with me. It was a stupid fight starting because of my dad.  Of course over text. I  called my pregancy parasitic and said he was spineless for avoiding my dad.

After that I said sorry. He said he was done. All last week I left him be giving him subtlety remjnders I loved him ANDd I was sorry. He still won't take me back. Okay fine. A littke more space and time.
He went on a date only a week later. And he's acting like he loves her already.
I'm a mess and I'm going to end up hurting someone dor no reason.

I love him so much bur he says he will never be my boyfriend. How do I show him he is just confused and doesn't know his feelings and that we can still work out? I love him and woukd change my while world for him. But no one knows the extend of love that we WERE in. And only 2 days before. Even the day of he wassaying he loved me and could get past all my weirdness I had that sunday. How do I get him back with him falling in love with me. A man can't just change his feelings like that so soon, can he? After evrrything. What should I do to show I'm a better person? (Than before)

[slytherinbaby]

It doesn't matter. Hes been saying things to fsmily about me being thos monster amd horrible person. I have so much forgiveness for him and he can't forgive me. He came over for the medical papers and just wanted to walk out with them. He doeant talk to me and doesn't do anything. He is not proving to be very kind or supportive. He only wants the chils and I don't matter to him. I feel that I made a mistake by trusting that he would love me forever because he treats me badly now. I just want to be a good mother now. And I am going to get counseling. I'm sorry I bothered you guys. That o soumded clingy and things. It was just his actions and promises got to me and now he doesn't even look at me. Um... I guess I just deal with it. This girl is a sophmore and she doesn't know what she's getting into. Obviously he is a back stabber and a ****. So I just move on.

[OurBabyDerp]

I'm in a very similar situation, i'm almost 20weeks and my boyfriend left me last night saying he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby. It's difficult and it's sucky but the little baby inside you needs you. Everytime i cry i can feel my little one nudge me and it stops me for a while. If you feel really bad then go and see your doctor and see if you can get some help but there's nothing you can do with him. Leave him alone and maybe he'll come to his senses (that's what i'm doing now) but if not then he loses out on you and the baby. Stay strong and i'm always here if you need to talk x

[texxasbby13]

Sounds to me like he was looking for a way out and used the dumbest thing to or argument to bail. I'm sorry girl maybe I'm wrong but I hope he comes around at least for the baby

[GordonBaby]

Agree with lilseamonkey

[MammaBoobundaBird]

I agree, you can't force someone to love you or want to be with you. You have to focus on the baby. That should be your first priority and that includes staying healthy for him/her. If he really loves you he'll come back on his own. If not you're better off without him.

[teregarcalva]

The lack of sleep, throwing up, and not having an appetite are all natural pregnancy symptoms in the first trimester. It sounds like he wants to move on and if he wants that you need to let him maybe later you two can work it out but he needs to want to work it out and it doesn't sound like he does. I've been here a couple of times with my husband when we were younger. There were times he couldn't do it and there were times that I couldn't. I always loved him no matter what there were just times I didn't love who he was and couldn't be with him and when this happened we would guve eachother space easier for me than for him though. Somehow it just worked out and we got married after 6 years of ups and downs and a son who is now 4. It may not workout for you two like it did for us but that's life love and there isn't anything you can do about it. I'm guessing it's his baby and if he wants to be there for him/her then let him but if hedoesn't want you, then you need to accept that. You can't make someone love you or even see that they love you because only they can see that. You pushing him to come back will only push him away. Give him space and time and if he gives it another chance then work it out but if not then you have to move on and let him move on. Take care of yourself because it iisn't just you anymore I know it hurts but your baby comes first.

[Lilseamonkey]

First off, you have to stop stressing. I know it's hard but you have to for the baby. Second, vomiting and lack of appetite are normal in the first trimester just make sure you stay hydrated. And lastly, you can't force someone to feel the way you want them to. If he wants to move on then you need to let him. If he comes back then great, if not oh well. Just another guy. You can do it alone if you need to any woman can. Focus on the baby, that's what should be #1 right now not him.

[slytherinbaby]

Also I'm 10 weeks pregnant so all this is causing not eating and lack of sleep. Worst is I throw up everyday. So I'm not in healthy condition