Pregnancy hormones?

[mommy_94]

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, I'm pregnant with our second child together. Any ways, he's been having today planned that he's gonna go gun shooting with the guys, he left at 6 a.m and he's been telling me that he will be home at 9 a.m, well it's about to be 1 p.m where I live and he's still not here. I don't want to come off as a ***** but I'm pretty upset that I haven't even got 1 call or at least a stupid text to let me know he's gonna stay longer. Is this something to be upset over? I know if i did the same to him he would be upset

[RockRose]

I think anyone could understand your frustration and hurt.

I don't know what time it is there,  but I'm guessing  it's after 2 where you are based on your posting the time upthread,  and he said he'd be there by 9 a.m. so it was inconsiderate.

What would have happened if he had texted you and said we changed our plans I'll be out all day and will be home at 5?  Would it be okay then?

Sorry to keep asking questions.  I'm just trying to figure out why he didn't let you know he'd be this many hours late.

Best wishes.

[mommy_94]

Honestly it's a little bit of both. I'm 31 weeks pregnant I'm a stay at home mom. I'm at the house ALL THE TIME. I think it's fine if I get upset over something like this, I don't mind him going out I understand he needs his alone time with friends, what's upsetting me is that he can't even text me to let me know, I think I deserve at least that. And no I'm not blowing up his phone like crazy I haven't even texted him, I'm waiting for him to text me

[RockRose]

mommy_94,  this might sound like a rude question but I don't intend it to be.

Are you actually worried,  or are you mostly mad that he's not with you and you're taking care of the baby?

Because it does make a difference.  If you're truly worried and would be completely relieved just to get a text "we decided to go hang out and watch basketball after shooting",  he should fire a text to you.

If you're mad he's gone longer than 3 hours with his friends,  he's probably not as willing to make contact.

Best wishes.  I bet if he were injured you would have heard long ago.

[Coreys_mama]

My husband and I are the same way! Or he leaves to go hunting, I end up saying must be nice to go shooting considering I can't and haven't been able to in a long time. I make my smart *** comments to him he takes it for the most part let's me get it all out before getting into a huge fight cause in the end fighting over it *****, but I do tell him that it must be nice, cause I've changed my whole life for our kids and he can still go out like nothing is holding him back

[mommy_94]

So am I supposed to act all fine and dandy and not worry wether he's okay or not!!???!!! It's one thing to nag but another to just ask for a simple text or call to let me know what's going on!!!! @jesyka217

[Jesyka217]

My advise is to pick the fights that matter the most to u. Don't b$&?! About the small stuff to much. Women who do this just sound like the nagging lady. Not a good look for anyone.