OH HELL NOOOOO

[Eva_Mom1]

I NEED SOME ADVICE BAD!!!!!! Ok this me and my bf first child we currently stay with his mom. Now i love her with all my heart and my bf is her only son and is spoiled but i wanna move out her place with my bf but she thinks she is coming idont want her to she is to controlling and my bf wants her to come too im like wtf hell nooooooo she wants eveything to be about her iknow thats his mom and eveylrything but no wayyyy. Im scared to tell her because the first think she guba say im tryna turn her son against her which is not true idk what to do HELP!!!!

[Eva_Mom1]

Omg thank you so much ill try : )

[EllaMari]

Eva, sounds like you need to have a very calm discussion with your bf. Explain the benefits of it being just the two of you. Keep it focused on the good this type of living situation will bring to the both of you. Family bonding...and so on. Maybe try to say that while you love his mom, you want time to adjust to being a mom and let her enjoy being a grandma. Maybe suggest you spend every Sunday with her to help her feel included and loved. If you approach him with a combative attitude (eg. 'She is NOT living with us. End of discussion!) You'll just be setting yourself up for a fight. A fight you will probably lose. Stay calm, loving, and positive!  Good luck!

Snarciso,  if you have a question you need to make a separate post. Otherwise the thread gets too confusing.

[Snarciso1524]

24 weeks on Tuesday went for a ultra sound and they saw I was funneling I was five cm with a bulging sac and I was put on bedrest and given the steriord shots and the mag sulfate three days later today I had some discharge with a little blood what is it ? But I am also down to three cm and no more bulging sac ? Am I gonna deliver ? Do I have a chance of making it six more weeks