Sex

[hotchicitahc]

So I haven't been as sexual activit this pregnancy I don't know really y but I don't want to when I do want to I have to wait and it just goes away I feel like I'm not doing what I should be and I feel like this is y I'm mad but I know its not y I'm mad I have been mad the whole pregnancy unfortunately I'm 16 weeks and I haven't ever been so mad in my life during a pregnancy and now I am and I'm not happy with how I'm not giving him what I know he wants and it ***** I feel so bad and hurt like I did this but IDK someone help please

[sophie26x]

hey. i am currently 38+1 and i havent been wanting it either from like 8 weeks. i feel so bad for my partner but if your not feeling it you will feel worse doing it when u know its not what u want. try finding other ways to comnect with your partner. we go out for meals or out looking in the charity shops or something daft while our son is at nursery. we thought the "spark" was gone but we have found it again by spending time just us doing silly things we like doing. when i had my first child 3 years ago i had postnatal depression. from he was born til about 8 months i remember nothing. it still hurts and haunts me to this day. i dont know how my partner put up with it but he did. for that im so glad. without him my life wouldnt be what it is today. he helped me through the hard times and im sure your partner will do the same. just please realise you are not alone. there are people out there feeling the same and its ok to feel how u feel. thats what has helped me through. try even speaking to your gp about how your feeling and that your sexual activity is gone. they may beable to help. i do hope u feel better and if not im only a message away. chin up! X

[Ellie_SMommy1109]

It's perfectly normal. Until I was about 20 weeks I didn't want anything to do with sex. And then there are still nights where I know my boyfriend wants it and I feel terrible because I don't even want to be touched. I'm 36 weeks now so give it time... one day it will be all off of a sudden but you will want to jump his bones. Lol

[hotchicitahc]

Thank u

[aj9233]

I have the same problem as well. My husband tells me it ok it's fine that I'm pregnant so don't worry about it. Also I find my self getting mad overly mad a lot but it will go away soon but u are not alone a lot of women get this way