Rant-> please advise!

[bhb071012]

I found out I was pregnant shortly after my friends shower (that I threw for her). Then she stops talking to me, but had plenty of time for her other friends but not me. This bothered me a little bit. Bc I spent a lot money, time, and energy to make sure it went smoothly which it did. Here is problem that has really hurt me, she went into labor to have the baby and (after she promised me she would call me) I found on facebook, by a mutual friend of hers. I have went out of my way for and bent over backwards for her, and she couldn't even drop me a text that said fixing to have baby? We have been friends for over 10 years, when and how should I let her know that she hurt me and that I don't even want or need her friendship bc I feel like she has used me throughout her whole pregnancy?

[niinii]

That is pretty messed up but I think its better not to have ppl like that around u especially while pregnant. Don't stress over it too much. Ppl come and go. 10 yrs is a lot but keep ur head up and take care of ur litrle bundle of joy. :)

[KTowne]

Sounds to me like she's jealous she's not the one in the spotlight anymore.. my SIL is the SAME way.. I threw her baby shower, found out I was pregnant after and she was a complete dumb a s s to me! My advice, screw her.. let it go, she will be wanting to know how you're doing as you find out what you're having, baby shower, delivery, of your child.. who needs friends like that? You're better off without her hun!