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My future mother in law and sister in law are making my life hell. They are literally doing anything they can to come between my fiancé and I. They're spying on my facebook and finsing anything they can against me. Well thwy were before I blocked them. His mom is constantly bad mouthing me and sending me nasty messages. I'm so tempted to get a restraining order I'm so frustrated. I've only tried to be nice and include them in our life and hoped for them to be part of our baby's life. Now I don't want anything to do with them. I don't want to talk to them and I sure don't want them around my baby. I feel like my fiancé gets my side but sometimes I feel like he lets them keep trashing me, like he allows for this drama to continue. I'm at my witt's end and I want to run away. What do I do?
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I talked to my fiancé and he agrees that they need to stop contacting me. I got the okay to block all calls, texts, facebook, etc. Earlier he wouldn't talk to me but now he's kind of talking about it. It wouldn't matter if I left because he's never home anyway. My family lives 2 hours away and thankfully his mom lives in a state away.
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I'm in a similar situation.  However we are already married. My husband does stand up for me and the baby but in a Bert polite and passive way. That's hum amd how he deals while  I on the other hand am an aggressive  ***** when you talk **** about my unborn baby. So we told them if they have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all and in til they can apologies they will not be included in our children lives. I hope that they grow up but it's their lost not mine
Just try even though it's hard and I don't always do it but don't get on their level and act childish.  Best if luck lady!
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Wow thats crazy, this is what I would do, invade them to dinner with your fiancee been home and tell both of them how you feel if you don't see them giving you the reaction your looking for, and you have family and friends or at least finally stable where you can pack a bag and make your fiancee believe your leaving him cause of the way his family treat you go for it if he loves you he will be damn if you walk out of his life with his child cause if his family...
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