Aa
someone please help me!
So I didn't have any problems with grandparents and I still don't but I'm having an issue I guess. On my side my mom is a single mom hard working woman for my 2 brothers and sister in a small house. On my fiances side his parents are together and have a great big home. Previously my mom told me for the 40 days after to stay at her house so she could take care of me make me food and help me with the baby since I'm a ftm and am nervous. But last night my fiancee mom showed me a room she decorated out of nowhere and said she'd want us to come for the 40 days to stay there so she could help me. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I don't know how to come forward about this. We have our own place and I told my fiance we'd stay there so both families could come when they please. My fiance is like all about his parents and yesterday hearing him say he was excited to go there I feel like I'm going to hurt his feelings and I'm not scared but just stressed already and feel I'll be stressed more talking to him about it. How do I come about this to my fiance and both parents?
I hope he'll understand. When it comes to his family nooooo oooonnneee can say anything but I got some valid points as to why our home would be better.
You just have to talk to him and tell him you are super thankful for the offer to stay at his families house, but you feel the most comfortable in your own home, and dont want to be a burden to anyone. Be honest but nice about it.
That's a really good idea. Then the problem would become who gets it first haha. Its the first grandchild in both sides and they're both very territorial.
That's a really good idea. Then the problem would become who gets it first haha. Its the first grandchild in both sides and they're both very territorial.
Why don't you stay with your mom for 20 days then with your bf's mom for the other 20 days?
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