What's got into him

[Billie925]

Ever since we found out were pregnant my husband has changed

He isn't loving towards me as much and likes to stay up at night alone drinking then stay in bed all day (he works offshore he isn't a bum) this isn't every night but is a few times a week and it's leaving me very hurt and also frustrated

I have tried talking to him about it but he is very dismissive I'm not sure if he is scared of how our lives are going to change but he is acting like a child and causing me unnecessary stress I'm not sure what else I can do as he won't discuss it like an adult

[elenaruiz21]

Mine was the same I gave him some time he was even refusing to have sex and instead watching porn I've been so hurt but I talked to him like propa convo I also told him sex is ok while pregnant that was at the begging now I'm 30 weeks he's so lovely he's not stress anymore he's taking care of me and the baby u will be fine they do need some time  

[Billie925]

I've just told me oh I resorted to writing on here and he has actually opened up and he has been worried I've told him to be more open with me about it all and it's not a sign of weakness I feel so much better

I hope things improve for you royal let me know xxx

[royal48]

my fiance is acting the same exact way and its actually putting stress on me and the whole relationship i dont know how much more i can take i will raise my baby alone if he doesnt change soon it hurts but its not worth the stress and anger

[Billie925]

He is definitely not cheating I am shocked that is where your thought process would go so quickly

Thanks Taylor I think your right he just needs time  x

[Taylor128]

My husband was the same way. Just give him some time to process everything. Men dont work the same way we do. They dont really talk about their feelings. Hes probably scared, and worries about how hes going to be there for you and the baby, and how hes going to support his family. No matter how difficult, just remind him that you are there for him and that its going to be okay. Men need us there for them emotionally just like we need it from them. They just suck at voicing it. Let him know you love him and that everything will work out. It gets better I promise!!!

[Cassie42015]

Cheating maybe ?