I was in one of my recent posts, but someone generously mentioned Pinterest as a place to go to for a list of what to pack for a baby and for you. I found this woman's blog, and she is certainly the place to go! Also, in the comments below there is more helpful thoughts on what to bring.
http://workmanfamily.typepad.com/our_life/2010/09/whats-in-a-bag.html