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Does anyone else feel like they are last priority on their baby daddy's list...not even just me, I mean me and the baby as I am currently carrying him .
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My husband is more than I could have wished for.   He takes care of me when I'm not feeling good.   He has done all the cooking and cleaning kitchen the past two months.  He comforts me and massages my feet when I lay on the couch when we watch TV.   Got it good here.
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11777386 tn?1426289802
Yes I used to because we live sepreat for now cuz his job and when ever I asked 4 him he would stop to do other things before coming now I don't because I talked to him and he makes more time for us if he's not here he makes sure he called to talk to me and our pumpkin
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My man and I broke up 3 weeks before i found out i was pregnant. He does not want the baby. We live together and even still share the same bed. Its bad for the baby because the fetus can feel what we feel even real early into it
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No my man is amazing. He is there anytime for anything. If I message him while he's at work saying I've been throwing up or I'm hurting he wishes that he could be there to help me. If you aren't getting this try talking to him about how you are feeling. Communication is almost always the key.
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Men only think of themselves.  My hubby felt like his life was ending.  He bought a boat, a motorcycle, and ran and played with his new toys as much as possible when I was pregnant with our first.  It was a lonely time and I tried to stay positive.  14 years later here we are with #3 on the way, and he's still a big baby but he's not blowing money on toys.  He has a great job and I get to stay home with the kids.  But there has never been any kind of nurturing spirit or "let me do that for you" mentality with him.  You take the good with the bad.  Some men are true gentlemen.   Others,  like my hubby are self centered.  I don't let it bother me.  He's a good dad and a good provider.  If he wasn't he'd be gone.  You can't have it all, that's for sure.   My happiness and bliss comes from my kids.  They are my everything!
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Communication and guys don't mix...if I say anything then I'm being irrational or crazy....apparently it's not allowed to have feelings...and nor do they matter anyhow.
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Yes.
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Not at all. If you do, you need to communicate with him and adjust some things  around. Im sorry he makes you feel that way!
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10836336 tn?1413180712
Yep
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