is it the hormones or am I right?

[mamabee1030]

My fiancé and I have been together 3 years and his family doesn't like me they won't acmit they don't but I've seen text and his mom always makes fun of what I say to him because he cheated on me in the past and I acuse him all the time because I can't help it I. But his family thinks I'm crazy . And he always blows me off to go hang out with them I understand sometimes spending time with them is fine but I try to go aswel and just feel uncomfortable Cuz I know they talk **** behind my back.we already have a son together and another on the way. I always cry and beg him not to leave and go see them basically everyday after work he doesn't even come home he goes over to there house ..he says we have our hole life's together but I always feel less important

[sinai09]

Oh gosh I hated my baby daddy for the longest time I always had problems with them they always talked about me he never stuck up for me .. His mom even tried to fight me when I was pregnant smh.... I finally gave up on waiting for him to choose my side and stick up for myself. I even threatened them they won't see my kids why would I want people like them around my babies? I wasn't playing around anymore n i told him off to ... I didn't need that crap .. now he sticks up for me cuz he knows if he don't it'll be hell to pay lol and they know not to mess with me anymore you just got to stick up ffor yourself and stand your ground especially of there wrong ... especially being a mother now I expect respect if I give it to them you know like our lids don't need to be around immature people seriously he needs to grow up n be a man ... so do they don't put yourself through that or your baby it's not worth it

[julymommy15]

Wow mama's boy!! Not a man at all he's obviously letting his family control him. That's crazy he needs some growing up to do. He has his priorities twisted. What if you weren't home when he gets off work?! Would he like that? NO! he has no respect and no dignity. He's still a child he loves the attention he gets from his family and doesn't want to grow up. Good luck to you girl. I wouldn't have any more children with him his obviously choosing his family over you and your child and soon to be baby.

[joamb]

I have very similar issues with my in laws and husband.

[janetta2015]

And we have a one year old son and a lil girl on the way and been together for four years but that's doesn't seen to really matter

[janetta2015]

I'm going through the same thing with my men's family mainly his 3 sisters they talk about me and everything and he takes their side when he should check them about the situation and when I get to going off on them I'm wrong I'll pray for you as I do myself we shouldn't have to deal with bs

[mamabee1030]

Yes I have he says I'm crazy and still doesn't stick up for me let's the talk **** and  blows me off to have dinner with them or whatever it's bs

[mamabee1030]

Yes I have he says I'm crazy and still doesn't stick up for me let's the talk **** and  blows me off to have dinner with them or whatever it's bs

[chelsey8911]

I'm sorry hunnie. Men can be so tricky sometimes. I can empathize with you though. My boyfriend and I have been together two years. He is a family man and a huge contributor to his mothers house, where he currently lives. I'm in my fifth month and we would like to move in together, but a lit of his priorities lie in his family. His father left when he was young and his stepfather died of cancer. His twin brother is away in Alaska in the air force, so he tries to pick up the slack and feels its his place. Its hard moving forward because I too feel like his family is sometimes more important. Have you told him how you feel?