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Soo..

How do some of you mommas feel if you think you see your husband/boyfriend look at other women?

My husband and I went to the water park the other day and I'm pretty sure I seen wondering eyes.
Although he says no I thought so.
I've kind of always has self esteem issues but I haven't ever looked really chunky. This pregnancy I feel out of sorts gaining more than I have with my other babies.
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8102917 tn?1402457914
I call my husband "sticky eyes" because it's like his eyes get stuck to whatever he is looking at its mostly under dressed women on magazines not really women in real life lol  
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Yes, I've told him I think it's more of the " I'm not looking at anyone" when I clearly seen him just look At someone. Lol. Sometimes we joke too but other times I just think like what the hell?
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With all the crazy outfits these days it's hard not too look.  It might just be in his field of view.  I find that we are both looking.  
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We are pretty laid back so it doesn't upset me. We both like checking out too looking ladies. I've never been sexually attracted to women but I won't lie. I do enjoy looking at some. I like to check out guys too. Nothing wrong with looking. But that's us. Did you mention the wondering eyes bother you?
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I used to get upset and he did too but  would say he never notices that he does it and believe it bc he says I do it too but I dont notice (sometimes I do lol) its nature to look around and at people even if theyre ugly or cute so now we just play around like we get mad but its really no big deal :) bc its not often when we catch each other doing it and when I do he'll feel bad and he always shows me a lot of affection in public anyway :) I knkw im not the only pretty girl out there but he makes me feel like I am :) sp thats why I let it go :)
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I used to get very upset until I decided I was beautiful. I told myself everyday I was beautiful, even if I didn't feel it. I would focus on my good qualities instead of focusing on the bad.
Truth is they will look at a beautiful woman. We look at beautiful things beautiful babies, humans, men, woman it doesn't matter. I feel it's in all our nature to do so.
Now if they look in a disrespectful manner with their tongue almost hanging out of their mouth and saying comments that is unnecessary and hurtful.
There will always be someone more beautiful intelligent no matter who you are but you choose your mate and they choose you!
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Yea that' s why i get so upset when i catch his wondering eyes. Especially right now that i feel so huge n not so pretty. It really does hurt my feelings. I just tell em ok watch imma do tge same n she how it makes you feel. I never can though lol
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7975661 tn?1403095318
Well my partner is the one that accuses me, makes a scene in the middle of the public and I wouldn't even have looked at anyone. Maybe he wasn't and you are just a little paranoid. Or maybe he was! Dont stress yourself, you are growing a baby.
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I sometimes cause a scene but we were with family so I kind of just didn't talk to him for a little bit
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Lol yeah I try to let it go cause I'm sure a lot of guys do.
I just feel like gee I know I don't look like that. More like I feel he would want me to look like the women he looks at. Cause the women I catch him looking at so not look like me at all.

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I cause a scene
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I get extremely upset, tell him something, n let it go after awhile lol
I asked him if you do that right in front of me how bad are you when im not around.
I believe everyone looks though. As long as theres no touching dont put too much into it
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