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i was really feeling lost...Yess Girl's After I Get My W2 I'm Leaving With My Babygirl And We're Gonna Enjoy The rest of my pregnancy....Thanks For All The Advices
I've been having problems with my Bd since I became pregnant , an I'm 5 months
It might be right now but later it will be better.
You can get a restraining order or go to the women's shelter! They will protect you and not let him come near you
You can get a restraining order or go to the women's shelter! They will protect you and not let him come near you
I'm had the police escort him out of my apartment but I'm terrified that he'll come around later and retaliate. And I'm afraid he'll try to get visitation or joint custody. This whole thing is just a headache itself.
The best is a restraining order. Leave. Talk to family and let them know what's going on. Its best for them to know. Look for somewhere to go and go to the police. Let them know he is controlling you and you're scared he'll hurt you and/or your little one.
You have it in you to win! If you can get a letter from the kids Dr or a psychologist that they were in danger and have problems due to witnessing it, BAM you got the jerk by the balls. I hope you win and stay strong!!! This will pass!
They always blame you for something thay somehow them abusing us is ok. My ex did the same exact thing!!! You deserve better! Run away while he is at work. Only take what you need. A domestic violence shelter will help with everything! They can even help you get a restraining order and a house.
Alejandra1239 you are better off without him. If I raised 3 little ones for over 2 years and a half you could do it. Leave and enjoy your pregnancy to the fullest. That's what time is about. Enjoying every moment of your pregnancy. Good luck.
Lol funny how we never want to get back into another relationship yet someone comes and changes that by treating us the way we're supposed to be treated. Wish I could be happy like that but I'm in court fighting for him to not be able to keep them for hours at time. He comes to court with a pretty face saying he loves and cares and misses them. It pisses me off how the judge says the domestic violence was against me and not my kids. So what about what my babies saw? Everything they felt? What they went through when he would hit me while even holding them as newborns? Apparently that doesn't seem to matter. Wish this POS would just leave then alone for good. They don't need him. Thank you. Proud of you too! WE HAVE TO KEEP THE GIRL POWER WAY UP HIGH!! :) Any and every girl going thru domestic violence can get out!
Im Tried of the way he treat me...I'm really thinking about running away with my Lil girl and enjoying the rest of my pregnancy by myself with my 5yrs...He's Always Saying I'm cheating on but yet i'm pregnant by him...it even got to the point he started recording everything i do ughh
Weird how much we can handle, honestly life is so much better for the kids and ourselfs when we do get out of those situations. So proud of you for leaving! GIRL POWER:)
Yeah same here, never ever wanted to marry again and then my husband asked me out for coffee and here we are lol. We were both going thru divorces lol. My 4 yr old has Aspergers and trauma from my ex. He is terrified of him. Thank god the SOB fled half way across the country
BabyWidmer exactly how everything happened with me except he didn't physically abuse my oldest, he verbally abused her. My son was 5 months when I left him. After everything happened my son ended up needing physical therapy because he wouldn't crawl, stand or walk! :'( Now my beautiful healthy baby boy will be 3 on May 5th and he runs around driving me nuts and making his cute little faces. I should've left long before too but I felt my kids needed their dad. Proved myself wrong the moment I was alone with them. There is plenty of help out there. Use those resources that are meant for it.
J-nena5, same here except this is our 8th. My husband treats our 3 like his own!
It really does get worse. Ex use to verbally/ emotionally be abusive then it went to him hitting me. He started taking it out on my 1 yr old and 3 yr old. My son was 2 weeks old when I left. Once he laid hands on my kids I left but truth be told, should of left LONG before that. But I felt stuck. There IS help, domestic violence shelters, maybe family? Please seek help!!!
It really does get worse. Ex use to verbally/ emotionally be abusive then it went to him hitting me. He started taking it out on my 1 yr old and 3 yr old. My son was 2 weeks old when I left. Once he laid hands on my kids I left but truth be told, should of left LONG before that. But I felt stuck. There IS help, domestic violence shelters, maybe family? Please seek help!!!
Girl leave your bd. I'm telling you this from experience. That type of domestic violence is only going to get worse. I'm a domestic violence survivor. I had 3 babies with my sperm donor who only hurt my little ones. Now my little ones need therapy because of everything they saw and felt. I was doing it all alone for over 2 years and a half until my current hubby to be came into our lives. Now I'm 11 weeks pregnant with what he says is out 4th baby because he says my first 3 are his even if they don't carry his blood. Get out before its too late, especially if you care about your baby's safety. I wish you the best of luck my love.
ChelsaBoyd, hope you left him!!!!
Yup mines nothen but a headache. Glad im not with him anymore.
I'm also worried my bd hurt my baby. He was sitting on my stomach when he was choking me. I'm only 14 weeks and not showing much so I'm hoping my baby was protected enough by the placenta and my body itself. I'll deal with my injuries but I don't think I'd be able to deal with my baby being hurt.
Same boat here. I had to go into the bathroom at work and cry just to release some stress.
I used to be like that but I put my baby first and I don't need the stress because im high risk so just keep your mind of the problems and try to enjoy the rest of your pregnancy stress free
I know how you feel
Me too. I guess I'm doing this alone. I'm so stressed I keep getting little pains and headaches and it make my nausea worse. :(
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