Could have written this myself!! MILs are hard work and stress. Can't be bothered with them personally!
I hate my mother in law as well . She sounds just like yours always causing drama . Luckily I don't have to deal with her cuz me and my fiancé (her son) has cut her out of our lives for good . Just ignore her petty *** and I swear your pregnancy will be so much better an stress free ! She is def not worth anything !!
Hang in there you can take time out for yourself to pamper and meditate. You should consider spending time with close friends and family members who are positive I know it has helped me. Just pray about it and before you know it you will feel empowered.
Mother in Laws , when you are the wife, are hard. I gave a great relationship with my mother. But my MIL has hated me from the beginning. I joined the family eight when FIL and MIL were divorcing.
To this day she can be difficult. I just found that giving her days. My husband takes her out to dinner for her birthday. On mothers day we give her flowers. But we don't try and build a relationship. We do it for our son and future baby.
Talk to your husband about it. That's what I did. And turns out he doesn't really care for her either.
I sometimes don't like mine. She tries to guilt my husband into stuff. We just had a long conversation about it. This is why we are not going to go see her on mothers day. His family made my very first mothers day horrible and I cried the whole day. They ganged up on me and "they knew best". My husband had to work and I probably shouldn't have gone alone. But I am now standing my ground and refuse to see them very often. She is so rude and I'm done.
I hate my MIL in the worst way so I'm right there with ya