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The worst first trimester

I'm 9w today and I've had all day morning sickness, vomiting, diarrhea, constipation, burping, restless leg syndrome,exhaustion and really bad aggression since 4w. I am seriously miserable and can't leave the house for more than an hour. Is it bad to say that I hate this sickness because I do? I love my baby and feel really bad for saying that but I feel like I just want to sleep this part out already. I can't handle another second of the nausea. :( And yes, I'm trying every remedy under the sun. All I can do is just sit here and suffer and pray that the good part comes soon. Is anyone else suffering miserably?
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I'm not that far along and there is a chance that things will go better for me. How far along are you? I will pray that you can get close to that 34th week!
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Thanks for your sharing your story.. It makes me feel better about my situation too. I really hope things go well for you and baby! I bet you're really bored. I know I am. I'm just trying to sleep as much as I can to avoid the nausea. When I'm awake I just try not to vomit or feel nauseated and I work on crafts here and there.
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Ask for Phenergan suppositories. Those work! No they can't admit me to this one. So if I go into active labor we have to drive 45 minutes to my hospital then get confirmation that I'm in active labor then get life flighted to a hospital 2 hours away. But that's only until I get to 34 weeks bc my hospital doesn't have the equipment to take care of a preemie of that gestation... so I'm on strict bedrest I can't be up for more than ten minutes a day and those ten minutes is to take a shower and use the bathroom... and I'm on pelvic rest and on medication to prevent and stop labor. None of these things are working though bc I'm now 61% effaced when I started out at 50%. I love heating people's stories of worse experiences during pregnancy bc it makes me feel more positive about my pregnancy since the only positive thing is I will hopefully get a healthy boy out of this. So I told you my story to hopefully make you think a little more positive about your pregnancy! ♡ men definitely do not understand what our bodies are going through. My husband is just now catching on bc the doctors are explaining my situation a lot better straight to him...
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I know. I'm on Zofran but its not that helpful
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Your Dr can prescribe medication to help. I went through the same thing, I lost weight in my first trimester.
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OMGoodness! That sounds terrible!!! Oh god I feel for you! My husband thinks pregnancy is easy because he has 10 sisters and they all have a bunch of kids. I want to scratch his eyes out! Idk if I could go through what you are going through. I can barely keep it together by myself. Maybe I should change nausea medication. Are you staying at the hospital?
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I start my third trimester tomorrow and since day one have been sick has a dog. Kidney infections, heart problems, severe vomiting, passing out, diarrhea, constipation, currently on bed rest and pelvic rest for preterm labor reasons. My kidneys have started to stop working so now I'm on medication for those. I can't even stand for 2 minutes without passing out or coming close to it. I'm constantly in pain from contractions. Pregnancy *****. I have been told to only have one baby bc of all my medical problems brought up with this pregnancy. I have been given 5 different vomiting medications and none of worked. I've been on 7 different medications for my kidneys. Finally one has worked. I go to the hospital once a week or up to 3 times a week. And they said there is no way I will carry to full term or even close... probably starting steroids for his lungs next week...
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I am terribly sorry y'all are going through this ladies. I'm in my first trimester and I don't have any of that except really bad fatigue. Just remember this in the long run it'll be worth it when the baby comes.
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Im so sorry that you guys are going or went through this too :( Its really not fair. My first pregnancy wasn't this bad. And now I have to look forward to it in the second and third trimester too?! Oh NO!
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My 1st trimester was rough too I was nauseous in the morning , afternoon even dinner time. It came in waves. My doctor prescribed me diclegis it's a morning sickness pill , I would suggest trying it if you already haven't yet.. it helped me.
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I'm still going through that and I'm 38 + 4
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I am half way through my second trimester and without medicine I feel miserable
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I'm going thru the same thing!! Such a miserable feeling. My doctor gave me meds but it's not helping!! At least not how I want it too, Lol!
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