Too young?

[elenaruiz21]

I'm 21 years old I have an son he's 4 and pregnant with 2nd 31 weeks! I'm married (Jan 14) my husband is 25. You think I'm too young for marriage and kids? I know with my 1st just happened and I was turning 17 wen he was born with 2nd child we both wanted her. Ppl do judges us we don't really care because we are verry happy together and idk if we ever argued and we never broke up.! But I'm asking just what's in ur mind... as ppl see us like some little kids

[twinssecondtimearound]

Hi I was preg wiv twins at age 16 ad them age 17 then preg 20 ad my little girl at age 21 I am nw preg wiv twins again age 26 I have been wiv my husband since age 13 and I got loads of looks and comments but guess wt we r happy my kids r polite clean and feed well so who cares wt ppl say or think everyone has a opinion and that will never change no matter hw old or young u r so hold ur head up high and smile :)

[starryeyes0784]

I'm 30, my husband is 35. He has 3 girls from a previous relationship and they are 15, 13 and 11 then after we were married, we had 3 boys ages 8, 6 and 3. I'm currently pregnant with my baby #4 and his baby #7. We get tons of looks and comments too. Don't let it get to you. As long as you're both good parents to your kids, that's all that really matters!

[elenaruiz21]

Yes we are providing our kids financial and emotional support he's working full time I used to work but I'm I stopped 5 wks ago we love them and our parents are proud aswell hehe

Thanks ladies meant alot ur comments

[Sass508]

It's whatever makes you happy. Disregard the judgy people and do what feels right.

[MommyRed954]

Im 23 and my boys are 3. My first pregnancy I had twins and now im 24 weeks in my second pregnancy. My fiance is 27 and we been together 6 years and sometimes I think the same thing myself. Pple probably look at us n think wow we're on a roll lol but at the end of the day I agree 100 percent with the last post. If your happy thats all that matters. Me and my fiance are so proud of how far we came and what we have made together. The hardest part is knowing being young and a mom at the same time. Im leaving my party days behind because I love being with my kids so much more. It was hard because I loved to party and worked in bars late nights but I gave everything up. Not worth it.

[pinkmushroom]

As long as you and your husband are good parents to your kids and can provide financially and emotional support to them, I think age shouldn't really matter. Some parents who's old enough and supposed to be responsible for their age weren't really there for the kids.

[hersheyma]

I think its your life and you should spend it however you want, congrats and we should all spend our time enjoying our time here...

[elenaruiz21]

Yes it is hard sometimes but we always been there for each other xx

[mommalombardi]

People probably just look at you and think, " oh wow she's still 21 she probably hasn't gotten all of her partying out of the way and still isn't ready to commit or know what she wants with life!" It's really the older generation.  I have been with my husband since we were 18 and got married when we were 23. Even though we were together that long I remember 20-21 being the hardest on our relationship because we were still figuring out what we wanted in life and if we would have gotten married I don't think we would have made it! Lol but if you happy..who really cares what others think?