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Trying to think POSITIVE

I am very unhappy with my pregnancy, i have 1 more day left til my due date, last dr appt was Tuesday, I have not dilated and i keep getting contractions. But the fact he havent came yet and seems im going to go pass my date, im not even looking fwd to seeing him more and more, this is really depressing me,i know this is life, but I have alot going on plus on top him not coming out,i cant be happy,i stay with a attitude & getting depressed. Please give me positive advice,in need of some.
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Girl, I know EXACTLY how you feel. On top of this pregnancy being super rough on me physically it's taking soo long! I'm almost 39 weeks and still throwing up. Ugh. I'm so ready. And it makes me feel down too. But yes, please stay positive.  The light is there and we are already at the end of the tunnel! I've been trying to focus on other things,  it's hard but it works.
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Ive been trying to stay out the house lately with my mom just riding with her while she does the things she needs to do. It takes my mind off of things but not much at the end of the day is when it hits mostly,im like wtf still no damn baby.
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I feel for you. Having a baby puts our bodies and emotions into all sorts of situations, but if we weren't capable of coping with the entourage of ailments that come with pregnancy, then God would have given the task to the men to complete, and we can all work out how that would go....man flu springs to mind!!
You will have your little bundle anytime now, I'm sure you will make an excellent Mum and when your covered in sick and changing countless diapers, but getting looked at lovingly in the process, you will forget you ever felt like this.
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Thank you for that ur so right, im just a very impatient person i admitt, but lately its been very depressing bc of what i have going on and i just be feeling like i want to hold my baby already,i want to get back on my feet etc... Then another day goes by & im still pregnant.
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Hey
I have been 2 weeks late for both of mine and likly will with this one but everytime I get induced the excitement comes back. I think because r date comes and goes and goes u start to feel sad and not excited bc u don't know when and it can be extremely frustrating.
Don't stress too much bc it will happen they can't stay forever and it will be just as exciting and when u see your baby u will be very happy. Hang in there but I do understand bc I have been feeling this for my whole pregnancy as I always go late. I haven't even narrowed down a name yet which is unusual for us.
You will be fine and will enjoy the day and everyday after.
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Thanks, but that just made me more depressed, im not trying to hold nothing for 2more weeks, i can not and its not good for me to be stressing while this child inside of me I just want him out, i honestly feel like why am i having a baby, i feel so selfish right now but gesh im very fustrated,annoyed,confused i just have no clue what to do anymore,how to stay busy anything.ugh idk
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Oh God Plz Help Us Bare These Fruits With Ease And Patients Amen Hi I Hope Ur Feeling Better IM Having Twins And Am 16 Weeks I Wish I Was Near My Due Date I Have A Way To Go But My Advice Is To Pray And Also To Release And Share Ur FeelingS To Hold It All In Is A Nightmare Every Pregnancy Is Different But I Say Give Ur Wiretap To God
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Thank you, and ive been trying to talk it out. Congrats on your twins, i hope it gets better for you,because you do have some ways to go.
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Girl i feel youu im almost 36 weeks and the closer it get the more ready i become the pain has started from him getting soo big and im just ready to stop laying around and being in the house and start taking care of my baby and getting back to business .. your son will be here very soon and before mine soo thats a plus for youu dont be depressed he's coming in the next week regardless
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Awww hopefully urs come before ur due date, bc mines was sue nov 13th and still not here lol.....He's going to be something else i tell you, and he will sut and do all this movements, im like get out already mommy ready to start this jorney and get back on my feet too
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