Upsetting

[Danni15]

My boyfriend says I talk about my pregnancy too much. ...It hurts my feelings for real and has me questioning and feeling some type of way. I lost two babies before in my previous relationship so the fact I'm expecting my third I try to acknowledge it, if that makes any sense. Am I wrong for this?

[Danni15]

?

[mibebe15]

No and im sorry for your losses. Talking about your pregnancy a lot is normal no matter who likes or who dont. Expecting a baby is a blessing from God. I talk about our baby girl a lot cuz its exciting :) :).

[ADotty]

Exactly I do the same. Men will never understand our excitement or our concerns because they're not carrying the baby but they should be a lot more supportive. Tell him how you feel :)

[Danni15]

I am just starting to feel alone. I'm not near my friends and fam so I can't talk my ears off to them about it. I'm thinking about starting to go to mommy and me classes to meet new people.

It baffles me that he can listen to his best friend talk about her probs and pregnancy/kids but insults the fact when I talk about my pregnancy.

[RockRose]

That's why it's fun to be pregnant "with" friends who are also pregnant - because pregnant women can talk about pregnancy all day long.  

If you don't have friends who are pregnant while you are,  this forum is a good outlet - so chat away!

[Danni15]

I don't know how to bring that up without being a B or rude.

[ADotty]

Girl.... Sometimes you have to be a b to get your point across this isn't just your baby it's his too.  But if he doesn't want to talk about it right then just give it some time... You never know he might be nervous about the whole thing.  But I agree with talk to other women who are pregnant its for the better.

[Danni15]

OK thank u ladies

[hana_maybaby]

i m quiet opposite in this.. my hubby keeps saying that i dnt talk bout our baby so much..
but i honestly feel that i cant put these feelings to words! and i enjoy them alone leaving in huffing and puffing..
i feel sorry for him but thats the way i am.. less expressive!
I really love my bub and daammmnnnnn excited for the day he wil come! especially after i lost one at 34 weeks!
this i m 31+5 wks!

[Danni15]

Nothing is wrong with that. I talk about baby a lot but I haven't master talking to her. I don't know how BC I am afraid if I start she will be taken from me like the others. I lost them at 20 weeks exactly and I'm 18 weeks today