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What to do?!
I am currently 9 weeks pregnant today. Im going through so much stuff. I'm just beyond stress. & falling into depression slowly. My boyfriend and I live together but I'm very convinced he's cheating on me. If I just sat down & talked to him, he'd want to argue & turn everything around on me. What should I do? Anyone else going through this?
I want to think all the moms for making my decision much easier. I packed his things & left them outside my door. Changed my locks. I'm done. My kids & I come first. So thanks again ladies! It's like a weight was lifted off my shoulders.
To be honest, your children come first!! Yes having both parents are a best fit SOMETIMES. Woman do the most jobs when it comes to taking care of their children. Please just take care of YOU.. You come first, you're 3 months pregnant you don't need to be stressing over a wutless man who clearly have so many red flags and you've named them... So you know what to do but you seem you do not want to be alone which is understand and you love him right. Well you need to realize that you're an amazing woman and you deserve better then the ******** he is giving you. Trust me he is draining you and you don't need that negativity in your life especially when you're pregnant. We can only tell you what's best for you and your family but you need to make that RIGHT decision. My sister gone through the same ******** with my nephews father and that man has 7 children now very wutless man, and honestly my sister is doing amazing raising 3 children in her early 30s she put her foot down and make the right choices for her children. Us women needs to realize how much we are worth, we know what we want and if we are not getting that we need to move forward and believe that God will provide for us. I can go on but I don't wan to start boring you. All I am going to say is who do you think comes first?
Yesterday, he decided not to come home. I text him this morning & he tells me he's on his way home. It's now 7pm. He's not answering his phone. I'm just over it. I'm just about to polity pack his things & leave them outside the door. I didn't mention he does have another child outside our relationship who's about 4 or 5 months. I'm done! I can't do it anymore. Plus he don't do nothing. Pay bills I do it, pay rent all me, cook, clean you guess it Me again. Making sure my kids have everything they need me. He works but all his money goes on him.
I'm going the same situation to im 30 weeks pregnant and it's my first child to and I know how you feel
I'm sorry to hear that...I absolutely understand what you are going through. The father of my child to be has informed me that he is getting back together with the mother of his daughter- whom he has previously sworn is not the woman for him, and he no longer had feelings for...smh...men!..but we as women have to take care of our responsibilities with or without them...Oh, and the kicker!. .he has yet to tell her that I am 7 months pregnant!So now, my poor innocent child is being placed in the position where he will be resented by this female, because of his father's faux double life...
My baby father told me to get an abortion right away when I told him that I'm pregnant. Me and him don't believe in abortions but he said he doesn't want me being the mother of his child. When I found out I was 2 1/2 months and he basically told me I'm on my own. I'm 7 months already and I went through my pregnancy alone. If your boyfriend is still doing for you just try to not worry too much cause you don't need to be stressing. Go with the flow and you will find your answers you're looking for.
We have 2 other kids together. It's not that easy.
Leave him. It's not about y'all anymore it's about this baby. It needs u. Do t stress enjoy your new experience and go live life. I know this is easier said than done but u need to stand in your own. He may come crawling back eventually
Just keep your own mental health as your first priority. Remember everything you feel, the baby feels. My mom had to remind me of that when I told her how the father of my child acted, which I promise you was much worse than yours. After I told him I was pregnant he told me he was sleeping with 3 other girls and that I needed to get checked for chlamydia. Imagine THAT! I left him alone and it was the best decision I've ever made. I have a boyfriend now who doesn't want me to worry about anything, he just wants me to be happy I'm having a baby! If you think he's lying about somwthing, confront him, but don't let it start a fight. Being angry and upset and totally stressed is NOT good for the baby!
It's just the things he does that makes me think he's not interested anymore. Every since becoming pregnant I've been noticing the little things he does. & how he's slowly changing!
Me & my boyfriend live together & ever since i got pregnant , my insecurity has gotten worst . But if you dont really have any proof he's cheating on you then you should not worry too much . Or at least tell him why you feel like he's cheating on you . but dont stress yourself too much if it's just a feeling
If I'm being honest , I would leave him if I were you and put him on child support because honey I may not know you but you are having a precious child and if he can't respect you enough to be loyal and faithful to you and his new coming child , then he does not deserve to have you guys in his life but he damn sure needs to pay for his sins . At the end of the day only you know how much your willing to go through for him and only you know your breaking point . Usually your first instinct is correct so if your ready to let him go then you should do what's best for you and your child but if your willing to work it out and if your willing to stay with him after he confesses , again that's all up to you only you know what your willing to take from someone . Just put yourself first and your baby and make the best possible decision for you and the baby . Talk to someone who is realitvely close to you get their input and opinions on this , the people closest to you only want the best for you so their opinion on this issue will be honest and what they think could be best for you . Hear their sides , then take a day and think about what every one said , think about your own feelings and how you will feel if you make a certain decision , take some time a few days to really understand what you want right now and then just go for it .
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