so i juat wanna cry cuz im so mad

[1st_time_momma]

I hate my husband's job. He travels all over the place and we only have one vehicle so its easier for him to stay at his friends who lives 13 mikes away during the week when he works so I never get to see him and tomorrow he drives right past town and his friend refuses to come into town to pick him up for work forcinghim to stay at his house yet another fkin day and he hasn't been home all week and I've only seen him one time. I feel neglected cuz of his stupid job and alone because I am 20 weeks pregnant and home with our 19 month old daughter when I'm not working. I have no one to talk to my family thinks he's a lowlife n hates.him so they don't understand they just judge I just feel like crying. And today he was supposed to come by n visit and is so overworked by that stupid job that he fell asleep and now its too late for him to drive over here cuz he has to wake up early and I miss him and I just feel like crying :'(

[Preggoprenuer]

Wow, defensive are we? I dont recall judging you about anything, yet responding to a post in a public forum you posted about your business, and obviously looking for feedback. I did think that you were saying your family were the only ones you talk to, which is why they developed dislike, so excuse the confusion, but just like the other commentor,the bottom line is you need another car. Im not judging, because I simply dont have the final say. Also to feel judged just means that the truth hurts a bit. You apparently are looking for a better way out. I posted my website because being a woman, pregnant, and wanting a better life for my family is proof that there is a way out AND you guys may not need to wait for tax return. Again, there are always options, but if you arent aware if them, then you dont know right? Dont let  the start, stop you. ;) Take Care.

[1st_time_momma]

He just started working at the job recently and it is a good job better then mine but right now we need both our incomes and no I do not confide in my family I'm not close with them because of how thy act and two cars isn't.possible until I get my taxes around the time I have the baby and no I'm not crying all the time and I never asked u to judge me tyvm I live in the country so I don't have many options and if u can get work out here u better keep it because there's not.much I was sating that I felt like crying so get ur dmn facts straight

[mbhrd27]

I think, unless he is making a 6 digit salary, that job isn't worth being away from your family everyday. If it isn't enough to buy another car..... something isn't right about this picture

[4thonecoming]

Well since what she ^^ said obviously isn't always an option...is there a bus or something he could take to come visit more? You need to tell him how you feel and together come up with a solution that works for both of you

[Preggoprenuer]

So lets address the family issue; if you are crying and upset all the time and your family is who you confide in, then of course they will think negatively and judge. 1 thing you need to do is keep your business about your relationship in your house. Now its time to set a different pace.  The bottom line is to get another car..period.How is this going to work when the baby comes? I cant speak on your hubby, and say he's lame, however a sacrifice does need to be made. All week long without seeing him, then you crying and not In good spirits is not good for either of the babies. There's always a solution,  ALWAYS. Me and my fiancé are business partners,  we are retiring next year and we're both 30. Its time to stop being slaves to these jobs....www.truthwakesmeup.com

[1st_time_momma]

I work in the mornings 25 miles in the other direction and he works 50+ miles in his friendsdorection

[Praying4A_Miracle]

my bf works  out of town too but when hes home he's home. 13 miles isn't far at all. hew could sleep home and you could bring him to his friend in the morning so they could go to work together. at least he'd b home

[1st_time_momma]

I just feel so lonely and miss.my husband I hate his stupid job :'(