Question..? Opinions?(Dont Be Rude)

[TiKiyah]

If the guy u got pregnant for asked u to get an abortion from day one and you dont would you still expect him to be there for you and your child although its against his wishes?

[TiKiyah]

I wouldnt blame him really its a one night stand i wouldnt blame him even if it was in a relationship
Thats just me ..cause different circumstances bring different outcomes.

[ShannyO]

I wouldn't expect a damn thing out of him. You make the decision based on your beliefs & what's best for you. It's so easy for a guy to say get rid of it because it's not happening to their body. He knew the risk when he had sex!

[laurenBentley26]

My sister had one night stand drunk with this guy and got knocked up and is soo mad that he wants nothing to do with her or the baby. But I mean look at the situation and he is married

[TiKiyah]

Lol cant believe some people actually go through all that..its sad some men are idiots

[scarletbegoniass]

They will subpoena him and if he doesn't show up they issue a warrant, he goes to jail.

[TiKiyah]

And what if he doesnt show up to the court?

[scarletbegoniass]

I would expect financial support and only that. If he doesn't want to participate in his child's life that's his loss and I won't force him. But I would file for child support.

[TiKiyah]

I wouldnt either but i see so many girls out there having this issue and i am wondering wat goes on in their head i honestly would not keep it if its in the early stage (please dont judge) i just think that some girls expect too much from guys who dont even care. This isnt about me btw lol

[brittanyl31215]

As scared as my boyfriend was/is he still was a man and said I know I messed up but I accept my responsibilities and what we did but eveyone is diff hun it took him awhile to actually be happy about our baby maybe he will come around

[insomniac185]

No I wouldnt but it is still his responsibility either way, you didnt make tje baby on your own. so if he doesnt want to be there he will either need to pay child support or sign over his rights if he doesnt want to be a dad.  

[brittanyl31215]

My personal opinion I wouldnt expect nothing from him I mean maybe one day he will come around but if hes set in his ways and cant man up to something he helped create I would rather not have him in mine or my childs life

[Ninie22]

He will come around the further along you get , don't do it because he says too then he turns around and regret it , he just in shock , it takes a while for a boy to come around