anger management

[phoebenjossy]

So I'm 11 weeks and I feel horrible. I have no patience with my fiance and I feel like he is worse than a child. He suffers from asthma and is currently with a cold that is causing his asthma attacks to be more frequent. I try to Be nice and give him advice but he just acts like a child and gets mad. we have been fighting about money lately since he is the only one working and it's a part time. I can't take it anymore and I feel myself angry all the time and today I exploded and threw something at him for giving me attitude and call me names when I've done nothing but try to help!I even stay up at night with him! I know I'm going to need patience when my baby comes but what can I do about it starting now? Please help me I find myself so depressed and angry lately I've had horrible thoughts and I know it's being transferred to the baby..

[phoebenjossy]

Thanks for the advice. I've tried talking to him but he is so much smarter than me apparently so he cuts me off or insults me to **** me off more so then it leads to me yelling and throwing things. I am looking for therapists behind his back so that he won't use it against me later. It's getting worse by the day. and the thing is I love him and he loves me but he says thing lately that make me think otherwise. It hurts and I cry a lot.

[janellemassy]

I know exactly what ur going through ive been kinda crazy angry lately and small things set me off my bf has asthma too but my problem isnt with him its with the rest of my family. Just try to sit down and have a talk with him seriously it will make u both feel better to get some things off ur chest. Tell urself not to get angry and actually try to get through it without yelling make tht a rule when u sit down to talk.