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Comment made bf made hurt my feelings

I'm currently 23wks pregnant and I'm all belly, from behind people tell me that I don't look pregnant and I'm still wearing normal size 7 bottoms. I love pulling up my shirt and rubbing my belly, I feel like it's my way of holding and bonding with my son. Lastnight I was in the kitchen and was rubbing my belly when my bf walked in and I joked that I was busted and he wasn't supposed to see me do that and he replied "yeah I know because when I do I throw up in my mouth a little bit" then he said "oops, I wasn't supposed to say that because then I'd be a jerk huh" I went upstairs and cried for like 2 hours before he came up yelled at me asking what my problem was then turned off the tv and took the remote with him. Am I being too sensitive? He didn't say it jokingly and he didn't make eye contact either
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My bf made a fat joke to me last week & I'm due in a few weeks. I cried abt it of course. We had a long talk abt it. I told him how it made me feel & I'm carrying our child its a stress on my body & he doesn't need to make things more stressful for me. If you can't talk to him play around with him & make fun of him abt something.
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No I definitely don't think you're being overly sensitive, that was just uncalled for! I don't understand how he can even think that's remotely okay to say to you, especially seeing as its his child!
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