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11928406 tn?1431049111

I cant .... I want to leave but I cant...

I cant even talk our hear my boyfriend talk without being irritated! It just hurts soooo much knowing that he meshes another girl just to show me that im replaceable! :,( I dont even have enough courage to leave.... I love him soo freaking much I shouldn't have fell got him but I did and now I feel stuck! Threw everything that he's done to me ive stayed! Even when I told myself I would never stay with someone like that... I am soooo depressed I couldn't even sleep last night I thought about it all night.. he told me he's not waiting for mee forever but isn't that what you do for someone u love!? I dont know what to do anymore
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Definitely leave. Ive been with someone just like that. He said the same thing about waiting. He lied and cheated on me and still lied and made me feel like crap for being upset when i had a right to be. So guess what? I left, and it felt good!
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Just concentrate on uoi n your baby.   Be happy
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Leave. He's not gonna stop.
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I'm sorry but you need to leave if he's already with you how is he waiting for you? he has you. He is mentally nd emotionally abusing you nd it's causing you stress nd depression which isn't good for you or the baby.
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Please ask you Dr. if they can recommend a console for you. Tell them you are suffering from depression. It would be goid for you and your baby to have someone to speak to. Your boyfriend may not hit you but you are in a destructive relationship that is not healthy for you or baby.
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Unfortunately we set our own boundaries of how we allow others to treat us and by putting up with all of this your just basically giving him permission to do as he pleases. He thinks your never going to leave so he feels safe in whatever he does. The only way things will change is for you to be strong. Show him that you will leave if things don't change but you have to mean it. Unfortunately it will never change unless you do something about it, at the moment he knows that whatever he does you will still be there at the end.
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