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why won't my husband have anything to do with me?
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. I'm pregnant with our 2nd little boy and my husband won't have anything to do with me sexually. And when we do have sex it's 3 mintues long and be seems not to enjoy it. What can I do?
Hello amber sorry to hear what your going through. My name is tia , I think you should sit him down and have a conversation with him about how you feeling. It could be something hes going through you're not aware of.or it could be the pregnancy that have him very overwhelmed.
My husband and I haven't had sex in months and I'm 29 weeks. I think us being big and especially since it's his first makes it hard for them. Truthfully I'm so tired u don't mind. I think its just normal.
Its completely normal. My husband was the same way when I was pregnant with our third because we lost our second and he was very afraid he would hurt me or the baby but as I got further along in the pregnancy he became more comfortable and we had sex like every single day LOL. Now we are pregnant once again and sex is wonderful a lil more harder to find some alone time with 2 toddlers in the house but we always figure something out. Just give him time and talk to him about it and be spontaneous like all the time Literally have sex everywhere in the house dont plan it nor make it a routine same place same time cuz it gets boring he will come around.
Mine is the same way and I hate it ever since I started showing he seems to lost attraction in me I was undressing in front of him the other day and I felt like I grossed him out when we had sex he just layer there I tried to kiss him and he seem like he wanted it to be done with so I am gonna give up all together I don't understand why men are like that we are carrying their child they should love and find us attractive
Hello there! I have been in the smae boat since i started getting bigger! Im 32 weeks and im HUGE! So my husband is the same way! He says its because he doesn't feel comfortable he feels like his hurting me and lets not bring up baby moving like crazy when we even try!!! Lol i miss beeing skinny and having that alone time with him but were almost there! Hold on tight and just talk to him he might be just like mine! Don't think he is cheating or anything like that because that was i firts thought! :( but just show him love and have a good conversation with him! Good luck and blessings to you and you baby! (:
My heart goes out to you! My first daughter was from a different father... (Not a proud moment) he was the same way. Is this sex the same? Even if it's only three minutes, is it routine?! The reason I ask, guys tend to get bored easy. I'm NOT saying he is bored with you!!! But try watching porn with him, approaching him differently than you normally would, foreplay. Be firm!!! ;) My partner has also told me that some men are not attracted to pregnant women. It's not is persay it's the hormones we are releasing. Try to ask him what's up! You got this girl. Don't feel discouraged! P.s I'm sorry if you find this vulgar. I'm a very open person sexually and it's not intended for anyone to take offense too!
Talk to him. Ask him what's going on.
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