baby daddy issues

[lindseybroach]

me and the father have been very close for two years. he became my best friend and my lover we talked for most of the time an then he asked me out. we went out for a little while ans broke up because he was afraid because he leaves for basic in January. well it wasent long after that when i found out i was pregnant. well now all wedo is fight. he blocked my number for a few weeks and recently unblocked it because his cousin is friends with me and told him it was wrong. well now i find out that he has a girlfriend and shes pregnant. her and i are due right around the same time. we all thought it was his but its her exs. but now hes shoving his relationship in my face. he now claims this baby isnt his and refuses to tell his parents and tells me how im never going to be good enough. i just dont know what to do anymore. ive tried being nice and ive also been a real jerk.

[LalaLand8]

U GO GIRL!!! AIN'T NOBODY GOT TYM FA DAT (*¯︶¯*)♡♥

[lindseybroach]

thank you all. i know it will be hard but luttle by little its getting easier. i thought i wanted him in my life but he is trying to keep me and my baby as his dirty little secrect even asked his cousin to offer to take his place so he wouldnt have to talk or tell anyone. but come to find out his new girlfriend is in a pregnancy pack and is playing him already and his cousin is already texting me saying that he is ready to come running back. but i have grown sick of his games and realize that i dont need someone who is going to make me second choice. again thank you all your advice means so much to me!

[ruck9670]

I noe it sounds hard but u are probably going to have to fo it alone if hes acting like this do u really want him around anyway?

[jadeb89]

If I was u as hard as it may be bub stuff him he obviously doesn't deserve u or bub and u could find someone really special... u don't need the stress and tbh Ur wayyyy better of without the drama afterwards when bub is born...the @$#%hole doesnt even deserve to b on birth cert if hes carrying on like this..... my baby daddy cheated on me with men :-/ lol I know full on lol... and I have found someone now so bloody beautiful and excepting of my 2 kids I wish the father wasn't around at all (we've become civil now) but u may get married to sum1 like I said really special and Ur baby deserves sum1 that will love and appreciate not only the bub but u as well as a mother! And to have same last nane as ur child is something unfortunatly i will never have :-( n its **** specially now im having another baby who will have a diff last nane again.... Really hope u can find sum positive direction and u come out of this 100% try not to stress babe

[LalaLand8]

Let go and let God!!! You are about to embark on the journey that is life changing, and a once in a lifetime opportunity. That's becoming a first time parent. Don't you dare let no man or anybody distract you from the joy that you have inside you! Sad to say you're not the first and you won't be the last so get on with your life boo! It's hard, yes I know! But it's not impossible it's been done every day and still will be done daily.  Let him behave as a boy and leaving him alone is the only way he will see his nonsense. Move on!!! Im sending peace and hugs and squeezes and smiles your way all day today!

[3rdNdone]

Let it go for right now unfortunately you can't force him to do anything right now. After baby is born take him to court. The DNA test will prove he is the father and not only will the court force him to care for his child but when his command gets the information they will too. He lied to you and hurt you all he needs to do is care for his child.

[LyakGarcia]

Well if you know where he lives or his parents its good enough to have him served and go to court for child support, just save all those text messages he sends you, you may need then, good luck!