birth mark??

[sarahshahzad]

M ftm n i have a really big n dark birthmark on my stomach m worried is my bby gonna get it too n what r the chances of him getting that on his face??? I feel bad abt it plz dnt judge me i want my bby to be perfect:(

[sarahshahzad]

Kathyy i wish mine skips too:)

[sarahshahzad]

And the ladies whose saying i shud be grateful for the health only dnt knw what iam going through its not like m gonna love him less if he gets it  but i realy pray he doesnt has to go from inferiority complex his whole life like i did it isnt bad to think abt a perfect baby not only health wise but in physical aspect either..

[smichellec]

What's the point of leaving a comment if you have no answer/advice to the question and only want to insult/change her way of thinking? I am fairly sure birthmarks arent hereditary and i wouldn't stress too much. Like, what are the chances of him having the exact same bmark? Nha. He'll be gorgeous;)  

[sarahshahzad]

Thnx smich cnt wait to hve my gorgeous prince:)

[jellybelly105]

If you make a big deal out of it, then so will your child if they have one. Kids are more susceptible to adults' emotions than people think . If you don't want them to feel insecure then STOP treating it like it's a big deal.. cuz it shouldn't be. Maybe call it a "beauty" mark instead? I would want to teach my child to accept herself and others as they are. Birth marks and all. It's part of what makes us special. I think you're a bit traumatized from your experience but your child doesn't have to be if YOU teach him/her to love themselves as they are.

[Mamaofdeux]

I don't think birth marks are hereditary.  My husband and I have identical birth marks, mine is on the back of my hand and his is behind his ear, and they are the exact same shape,  completely identical. Our son doesn't have it.  He has two small 'wine stains' on the sole of his foot.