boyfriend acting up??

[nayahava]

Since I got pregnante, my boyfriend has been acting weird. Its like he doesnt want me anymore. We been  together for 4 years nd I never imagine he'll do that to me.im 8 months pregnante and I cry everyday. He picked up a fight on new year eve and I never heard from him. He only t xted me a few days ago to ask me if I needed money but he never ask  for the baby.Im in so much pain.

[Aarahbellah]

Lol yes I know how y'all feel my husband some days loves the baby to death others he is very distant he crystal his back hurts he don't feel Good and I Sitting here like ummmm Im pregnant not u

[nayahava]

This is a whole new experience for me too. I feel like hes the one pregnante with all those hormones changes, and mood swings.

[nayahava]

Thats crazy. I understant hes scare he had told me that nd we wasnt suppose to have the baby until after we finish college. He wants to be a lawer and he think  the baby is messing up hes career. He has mood swing, somedays hes exited about the baby, other days hes not. I worried that all that stressed wont affect my baby. I pray god she come out healthy

[Aarahbellah]

Me and my bf were going throwing the same thing I sat him down and we talked about it he had told me what was going on and how he was scared to hurt the baby or get to attached because in his previous pregnancy (not by me) he was attached to his little girl and then the mother went out drinking and stuff and killed the baby now after talking he is always there lady's I just say reassure your bf of how Good he will be with the baby because believe it or not they are 10× as scared as us they think if I do something I can kill my baby and I will lose the one I love men go through the same things we go. Through in pregnancy with there emotion

[oxwendyx3]

You guys shouldn't worry about the ya bf yeah he the baby's daddy but your baby needs you more and they need you strong . Stress can affect the baby.

[L23romero]

Am going thru the same I haven't heard from my boyfriend 7 months and it very painful I even think he doesn't care about the baby I even think I will never see him again :(

[mamaviv951]

I'm kinda similar to you. I was dating the love of my life for almost 3 years and ever since I got pregnant everything changed. But don't talk we had bad issues and we broke up. He never helped me at all what so ever and till thus day we don't speak. Your bf is probably scared that his life is going to change. Communication is everything..he'll realize soon