broke up with partner

[Sophieparsons92]

I have broken up with my boyfriend,  this time for good,  for continuous lies,  texting girls for sex and smoking weed and lying about it.  Also lost his job due to his own stupidity and imaturity.  Hes hurt me so much,  im in bed for 2 days and couldnt go to work.  I know i need to get up and be strong but i need to grieve also.  Its going to be hard being a single mum.  Anyone else has to go through a break up pregnant?  I know once my girl is here (induced in march 37 weeks as she has gastroschisis and needs an op)  it will be ok,  like the worry of her defect isnt bad enough.  

[danni_07]

Good for you! :D
For me it has happen twice with my babies dad i broke with him when i was pregnant with my first son and after 5 years we decided to try again, now im 26 weeks pregnant with my second son and their dad got someone else pregnant to so i told him to leave!...My son is happy and so do i, we dont need that kinda person on our lives! Now we are just waiting for my future baby boy ♡ :)

[butterfly_in_my_belly]

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[butterfly_in_my_belly]

Omg I don't know how u girls can do it. I must be such a coward or cruel. No words. I don't have a job but my bf does. I was the one who always talked about abortion jeez and he always wanted this baby. May be I am too selfish..cold or just coward. I wanted my life to be just like before. No reslonbility. Just fun. But I just can't fathom how many girls do it. And I am 27 years old. And I am still little
depressed and sooooo scared about the big change that's going to happen in my life..omg!!!

[nonishy]

I was pregnant with my first and the father of my child cheated on me and got the other girl pregnant.  Well I left him and was a single mother for 12yrs.
About two years ago I met a wonderful man, got married this past june, and we are now 36wks pregnant.  
Being a single mother was hard, i worked and went to college. Had my father and grandmother watch the baby while i was out.
No help at all from the father or that side of the family. Still 12yrs later she has yet to meet him or that family.  But we are happy, and she is so smart and such a great child.
It's hard at first, but as they get older it gets easier. I'm sure you will be fine being a single mother. Plenty of us do it. Just be positive and patient.  

[megpie535]

Me and my boyfriend just broke up also. I did my first pregnancy alone will be at this one alone too. My daughter is 4 and very excited to have a baby on the way. When im sad or she sees me crying she says it will be okay mommy we can do it we dont need no darn daddies. And reminds me how Im the best mommy and she loves me so so much

[Bonlane]

Im 29 weeks and Me and my fiancé are going thru it now and on the verge of moving in separate places when the lease is up.....I'm not saying it's for good but sometimes u just need a break from each other to realize what u have or what your missing out on....I know he will be there for me and my baby regardless but and this point all he does is stress me out and hurt me and he says it's no one else but my mind and heart tells me different so sometimes u just have to do what's best for u and nd ur baby!

[missy_100]

I broke up with my ex when i was pregnant with my oldest and i was 18 and very scared.  After a month or two of a hard time handling it. . I found i lived a much happier life by myself then with him acting like a child and all his stress.  Its very hard at first. Just remember your strong and " this too shall pass" sometimes a hard decision is better in the long run

[151207]

Sorry to hear that but I'm glad u got the strength to finish it. It will be hard but stay strong u deserve so much better and when ur little girl is here and u look how small she is and what a miracle she is then u will realise how much more you want and deserve for her and you. God bless and all the best

[koyama83]

Pity parties*

[koyama83]

I haven't had good luck with partners either :/ but I'm still just fine in the long run except for the occasional pity partner I have for myself.... When grieving, I've found it helpful to set aside a limited amount of time per day..maybe start with an hour each evening then make it less until it's an hour per week and so on.

[MissKrysS]

I also agree...GOOD FOR YOU! It takes strength to do any of this alone....I am so sorry to hear of Amy scary situationn regarding the baby, your strong girl and I'm sure all the others who answered agree we are here to talk, get up put some nice comfy clothes on and go have a nice preg. Message, there are a lot of support groups that helped me with my situation, its always nice to talk to anyone who can relate to you, goo luck hunny..

[ANewMother]

I had to break up with mine because he was putting me towards severe depression. He wanted to induce miscarriage, punch my stomach if it 'ever came to that', his words. He also tried talking to my dad about abortion saying 'there's still time', he did that after the breakup and everything. My dad told him to stay away from me. The ex was actually trying to come down here because 'he still loved me'. He kept saying that he still loved me. No, if your man loves you, he would help you and not act like such a low life!

I had my ex for a year and that all happened in just one week!! So now my sister and father are coming down so my sister can help me with this child and take classes with me so I'm not alone, and go to doctors with me so I'm not alone. Family is better in my opinion...

[specialmom]

Ahh, I'm sorry.  Always hard to break up. But you deserve so much more and better than a cheating, unemployed pot smoker.  You will have a good life by making this choice now.  Because free of him means you can find a quality person to spend your life with.  Hang in there.  Do something nice for yourself today.  hugs

[fefesbabynumtwo]

Good for you! Get rid of the negativity and, and concentrate on that beautiful baby growing inside of you! Can't say I'm going through the same thing, but I can never just be relaxed and content because I'm worried my husband will screw up. He's already been to jail twice since ive been pregnant (due in April) we have to pay over 200dollars every pay check for my doctor and I'm worried things won't stay on track. So I definitely know how you feel! Stay strong!