christmas trip

[saramay2014]

So thursday morning i will be leaving out to go with my boyfriend and his grandma to chicago,IL for a few days for a family dinner to meet some people his grandma wants me to meet :)  (shes been the most willing to be welcoming me to the family so far <3) im 31 weeks and alil nervous that imma go into labor up there XD probibly just silly but its in mind lol, anyways.. im worried shes gunna give me n my bf hell about sleeping in the same bed :p i dont want to be rude but we will be somewhere ive never been plus when im with him we always sleep together, i am gunna bring pjs to wear so its not like we are gunna be nakid or anything but shes a very religious person and idk how to handle the situation if it arises with out being rude. Hopefuly my bf will handle it but id like some advice if posible <3 thank you ladies in advance <3

[Future_Mommy1984]

Your having his child. I'd laugh at anyone in my family that told me I couldn't sleep with my child's fatheR in the same bed. id get a hotel lol that's Just me tho. I don't let other people run My life.

[chelseaa2010]

Me & my husband have been married for 2 years & together for 5 years... EVERY time we visit his grandmother in Madison, WI, we NEVER stay in the same room. lol Its a respect thing. Its really weird because we are married & now have a baby on the way.. but just respect their concerns or rules. Remember, its just a trip. You'll be in your own bed soon enough! :)

[saramay2014]

Its not her house :p

[RockRose]

saramay,  go to the Grandmother's house.  I've watched your posts,  and if the grandmother doesn't allow you to sleep in the same bed in her house,  it's okay.

She wants you there,  and that's a good thing.  Connect with her.  You haven't had any support whatsoever from his family at all - although you have your dear grandpa.

Embrace his family,  and agree to their modest rules.  I think they'll like you.