feeling neglected :( what would u do?

[kelleyproudmammytoobe]

so i try to make the effort tonight get loads of sweeties few romance dvds light the candles for him getting in from work do my hair nice outfit he comes in from work gets showered kisses me on the head and pisses off out with his friends! has not noticed a thing or has he? feeling so low at this point right now how can men be so selfish at times is it me or what? and what would u girls do in my shoes?

[babyinsogna]

If I was youand I told him how I felt and he told me that I would send a reply back along the lines of well since I nag so much see how u like doing your own laundry dishes cooking your own food then I would turn around the next day or weekend get all dressed up makeup nice clothes call ur gf and go out don't tell him just leave like him and see how fast he changes his way after a night or few of u doing that... Then tell him if you can't be there while I'm pregnant you can't be there when the baby's born. You def are not imaging or over thinking any of this and he shouldn't be treating pregnant gf/wife like that. Put ur foot down and stick up for you and your own if he does it now he's gonna do it when they baby comes

[wayfunmommy]

He's a man. They don't take hints well. They do better with warning and telling them exactly what you want.

[kelleyproudmammytoobe]

ive texted him telling him what i thought and got a reply saying (nag nag nag thatsyour only talent babe!) am lay in bed sobbing what an arsehole

[kthomp14]

I would tell him he needs to get his act together or you won't put up with it. Make him realize he can't go out like single men do. And that's what he signed up for when he started a family. Now he needs to be a family man. You don't deserve to be treated like that especially when you're pregnant.

[kelleyproudmammytoobe]

hes 25 and yes with his mates! this is not the first time this has happened just feel totally fed up and not wanted! wish my little boy was here to give a cuddle then maybe i wouldnt care what he is doing selfish pig!

[AuziNikol]

I've had the same issue. I see my bf for maybe 2 hours a day then a little before bed. He goes to help his mom all day but usually ends up sitting at his moms doing nothing I go to work at he hangs with his friends, comes back at 2am (I get off at 10pm) he's awake for maybe 10 minutes and falls asleep because HE'S exhausted. I know how you feel about being neglected.

[kelleyproudmammytoobe]

he cant be that stupid to have not realised what i was doing i find him being very selfish lately my hormones are all over to start off with just cant be arsed feels like a massive kick in the teeth could happly walk away right now but could i be over thinking things to much?

[melcarin]

Don't worry about him. Just put it away and go to bed. Next time he wants it do the same thing to him. Just don't go to far away. Maybe down to the nearest shopping center and sit there or see a movie without him. He wants to ignore your effort ignore his

[ash060115]

Wheres he gone with his friends?  How old is he?
Does he think he can just leave like that when bby is here?,

[Nayy_]

Call him tell him you wanted to do something special for him