going insane help!!!#

[colddrink]

This is our first baby and my wife is driving me insane. Every little pain or bloating she thinks we are having a miscarriage. She has it stuck in her head that she going to have one. What are some way I can get her to relax and appreciate What a little miracle we have Growing inside her?

[abcd_2015]

This made me laugh because thats EXACTLY how i am. This is my first pregnancy & everytime i feel something i just start to panic. Its' just how we are. I also go on the internet searching EVERYTHING. My advice to you would be after you have your first ultrasound & you hear the babies heartbeat just assure your wife that the chances of miscarriage are far less then before. Also tell her there will always be next time. There is nothing we can do to prevent a miscarriage except just trying to relax. Stressing & worrying will only make things worse. Good luck!!!!!! & congrats !

[AmyPrieto]

Buy her a fetal Doppler so she can hear baby's heartbeat whenever she wants. It will ease her mind. You can buy them on fetaldoppler.net :)