My boyfriend is a man. He takes care of me, his unborn baby, and his family in Mexico. He does not cheat, he does not lie, and he works very hard 7 days a week, 12 hours a day. Yeah, we're not married, so what? I still tell people he's my husband. He wants to marry me when we go to Mexico. That'll be in 2 years. I hate when "Christians" judge him because he's not American and how they say he's an alien, and not husband material. He's more of a man than my father is. My dad walked out on my mom and me in the hospital when I was born. Then decides to come back 17 years later. No letters, no child support, nada. If people wanna call HIM a man, then you too, need to get your head on straight. My boyfriend is the definition of a man.
I would live to marry my bf someday but i dont think it will change either of us.. its not going to make him more of a man than he already is and its not going to make me a different person just because id be a wife.