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cheating Boyfriend advice pls!
Hi, I was wondering if you could give some insight on this situation of mine. I'm currently 29 wks pregnant and found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me. It all started when I noticed he was being distant and not emotionally supportive of me. All he wanted was sex all the time, even when I'm not feeling well *I have sickle cell*. So two weeks ago I was having lunch with my coworkers @ work and they brought a friend. By talking she disclosed to is how she met a guy from a certain area and she kept going on and on about him to the point where she showed us the picture of this mystery guy.it turned out to be my man of three years!. I almost crap on myself. She went on to tell me she met him on a dating site.so I asked him about it and he straight up denied it.so I went into his email which led me straight to the site. Where I found that he has been having sex al conversations with multiple women, even making arrangements to meet up with them.i confronted him about it and he apologized and told me he would fix it. Two days later his phone rang and he kept ignoring the call, so I answered and the person hung up. I copied the number and text it to find out who it was... Turned out it was one of the girls from the website, they had appearantly met up and was planning on meeting up again when I was out of town. Needless to say she had no idea about me. She sent me snap chat msgs of him telling her to come over so they can have sex and pictures of his man parts. Then he had another one that was planning on coming to our house *according to her* when I was out of town *I travel alot* when confronted with the woman on a 3 way call he proceeded to curse me out, saying I'm ruining his chances with this woman...he's only spoken to her on the phone for three weeks!... he then went on to tell me that I shouldn't have violated his privacy, instead of taking responsibility for his actions. ..he then went on to tell me that he was JUST flirting and that's not cheating. I plan on leaving in a few months...I can't now due to my work obligations. How do you think I should deal with the situation until then?
Leave him. He'll never change. You caught him red handed. Don't let him manipulate you abd make you feel bad. It's just a defense to make you the bad guy, rather then him. A cheating man is no man to raise a child around. It teaches them unhealthy relationship habits. Trust me. My dad's advice to my younger sister and brother is to date as many people at the save time as possible. That's what our dad is teaching them. To be distrustful, disrespectful, foul people. Thank god my siblings learned from him cheating on my mom while deployed for 9-11 forever ruining my family abd my ability to have healthy relationships. Even to my husband I get suspicious cuss I grew up with a cheating parent. sorry to get a lil detailed but that's how I feel about cheating parents
From the sounds of it you plan on leaving in July. In the mean time you need to tell your Dr to check you for stds to be safe for you and the baby sake. Stay in another room in the mean time and basically have no contact with him unless it's about the baby. Pack your stuff and move what you can until July today way your not moving everything at once. Be strong you'll be happier in the end. Good luck!
I don't know but my best advice value your self and that baby you carrying and leave him..
I agree with the leave him advice however you have to decide whats best for u..we can tell u 100 times leave him u dont deserve this but ur grown so im sure u already know what u need to do...u have to make the final decision on ur own we are not living ur life although sum of us maybe going threw or have gone threw the same thing its still up to..i will however tell u to put the baby first an ur health..an with that being said i wish u the best of luck
Leave for you and your baby's sake. it's not a relationship worth staying in
LEAVE HIM. I know its easier said than done. But no one deserves to be treated like that especially not while your with child. I know it may be hard, but if you aren't seeing any changes you have to do what's best for you and your child. I wish you the best, stay strong my love.
I plan on leaving in july.my family lives in another city which is where I'll be going. And the fact that if I leave my Job before that I won't get my pregnancy and ST disability.
To this day he hasn't shown any remorse. Just constantly talking about his "privacy"
Leave him!!no woman needs to deal with that with from any man. Your already carrying his child and that's no way to treat the mother of his child. Leave asap before things get worst
Start seeing other people or trying to? I know its difficult especially being pregnant. But he seems to not care.. I know sometimes in the case its hard to move on and act like you don't care but that might be your best bet cause what he's doing to you right now is cold. I'm sorry, stay strong.
If I were you I would leave him now!! He is mentally and emotionally abusing you!!
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