dad to be. gf says shes getting abortion. 10 weeks. scan nxt week!

[AaronJamesWightman]

People that who have already seem me on this are prob annoyed im going to ask another question lol. But you are woman and i dont understand! what are your thought of girlsfreinds getting abortions? And will they really go through with it...

[nonishy]

In the state of California you can't get an abortion after 8wks.
She's probably not ready to have a baby yet. There are many reasons why women get an abortion.
Just talk to her and ask her why. It could be finances, education, living situation, maybe she is scared and just not ready to be a mom. It can be anything. You won't know till you two talk about it.

[wayfunmommy]

I'm pro-life. However, it's her body and you have no rights at this point.

[JamieNVance]

Ya do you think it is you, not the baby that she doesnt want? Maybe you should give her a lot more space. I know its hard but then later on you can get visitation rights IF she keeps it. For a lot of women seeing their baby on a scan really moves them. As soon as I found out I was pregnant(unplanned) my bf was not ready and was suggesting abortion. My mother instincts already kicked in and there was no way I was going to let anyone hurt/kill my baby. If you two are speaking maybe tell her she doesnt have to stop her life and you will primarily care for the child.

[marijana19]

I dont know how its over there but here its illegal to get an abortion after 10 weeks. I mean, no doctor will do it. Maybe its different there...

[missymarie214]

There's a 50/50 chance for everything. Truth is, it sounds like she really wants nothing to do with you, and if that's the case, she may not want a baby that would require you having to be around. Hopefully if that's the case, she'll choose adoption, but from the sound of your other posts, she's not in a good place right now, and you should really leave her be before she does make that choice.

[krystalchrist]

I'm totally pro-life with the exception of incest. I believe that God made a choice for you to get pregnant and you shouldn't do Anything to wreck that. I was 18 when I found out I was pregnant with my first and the thought didn't even go through my head. I honestly think that some women who get an abortion is because they aren't ready, but put the baby up for adoption. They are couples who will pay for EVERYTHING for you while pregnant.

[JamieNVance]

Some will go through with it. It all depends on the situation. I personally wouldn't get one unless I was raped or something terrible like that. Good luck.