doubtful spouses

[newmommy1113]

Have any of you ladies experienced a spouse or boyfriend who believes that you are faking some if not all of your symptoms?

[mommyclaudia]

I always am telling him how my feet and back hurt but he never gives me a massage. I never really ask either I guess I just want him to offer every once in a while. I think he thinks im exaggerating that's why he doesn't do it.

[newmommy1113]

Lol exactly, then my husband gets mad when I don't say a word about how I'm feeling. Or if I tell him he doesn't care. I try not to get upset but it really pisses me off. Most of the time I just put my headphones in when he starts

[AngePants]

Ya. I think my hubby thinks I exaggerate things like how tired I am and how when I say I need something as in food he truly doesn't understand how much you seriously will break things if you don't get it, least thats how I get haha. Very emotional, but they don't know what it's like and they never will. The other day my husband was giving me grief about something and I looked at him and said "fine, you have this baby" and he rolled his eyes. It's just how it is sometimes.

[tirdness]

Yes! I Don't think my boyfriend understands how painful the pains are and how tired and everything else it makes you feel! If only men could feel what we feel! Or at least be a bit more understanding and less selfish!  

[rosarasha]

My husband always think that I'm exaggerating or make it look worse. And keep telling me that his sister wasn't that weak and impatient like me when she was preg .loool i guess he meant to encourage me to be strong but it pissed me off all the time. Dont worry and dont listen to him.if u feel something contact ur doctor right away dont even tell him