I don't think spicy food matters at all. What about mothers who live in countries where the food can be very hot and spicy? Do Mexicans and Thais eat in English restaurants when they are pregnant?
Having said that, certain foods that you are used to eating may disagree with you when you are pregnant. No one knows why.
Not bad at all we had buffalo wings last night ;) there will come a time you reconsider due to heartburn or just pop Tums and keep on going lol
I don't think its bad for the both of you, the only thing that may happen is you get heart burn a lot.