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So my dreams have been getting me into trouble becuz I talk in my sleep...

I've been having vivid dreams of me n my ex... n my husbands been waking up to me saying my ex name... how can I can stop doing this??? I stopped dreaming like this when I was a kid... stopped talking in my sleep... well now its worse n my husband wants to leave becuz of a dream I had last night

How can I explain to my husband I don't want my ex n I don't plan on leaving him for my ex... cuz every time I try to tell him it ends with me crying cuz he gets so mean???
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I heard its normal to dream about exes. I mean your life is changing and its a big comitment to the baby and the father...your brain is just kinda flashing back and obviously your probably hormonal and your libido is up so its a weird combo. Sometimes i dream about co workers im not even attracted to (i love gingers and my mans a full redhead) its ok i think...you cant control your dreams lol...just dont act on em :) i always nudge my guy like "yea like youve never dreamed of your exes or being with some hot model beforw!" And he gets it.

Be open and let your guy know its not you...hello hormones are crazy 24/7!!!
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Take him with you to ur next appointment have ur doc explain that weird dreams are apart of pregnancy.
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Omg I been having dreams of my ex too ! Its not jus a random ex its one that I was extremely in love with. In each dream he expresses how mad he is that im pregnant by someone else. Haven't seen him in a while but he's my best friends brother so im bound to see him. Weird how im not the only one with this ex dream. I would love an explanation.
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O my gosh i kno what u mean i have been havin off the hook dreams about my ex!!!! I even talk in my sleep big time too sometimes i wake myself up!! lol  I dont even kno why i hate my ex cuz of reasons and thats the last thing i wanna dream about!!! i wanna kno why too and how to stop them!!! Lol
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O my gosh i kno what u mean i have been havin off the hook dreams about my ex!!!! I even talk in my sleep big time too sometimes i wake myself up!! lol  I dont even kno why i hate my ex cuz of reasons and thats the last thing i wanna dream about!!! i wanna kno why too and how to stop them!!! Lol
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omg ive been dreaming about my ex alot lately and have no idea why lol its weird.
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Well see I was with my ex for like 3 years then met my husband n left him.. so they've always hated each other n he has insecuritys about me leaving him for my ex... n now I'm saying his name in my dreams..

Very big issue my dream last night I said to my ex in my dream.. or atleast this is what my husband told me I said "babe! Babe! (My husband woke up) I'm serious I love you devin.. I want you back..." then he said I mumbled some dirty things..

And he's been gone since we got up this morning and he told me I said that... of course I said I loved him n not my ex n that I don't want my ex... but like he doesn't believe me... :(
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Goodluck! I.hope ut.dreams dont become a big problem.in ur.realtionship
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Omg ive.been.having.crazy dreams.too but good.thing I dont talk lol Its actually the other way arounf my bf talks all the time! I remember the first time.i slept with him and he talked I.got really scared bc he stood up half ways and pointed to the wall saying that that kid has his shirt I was soooo scared !!! I woke him upp!! The other feww.times its.been usually somthing funny lik he said once" im.hungrry hungrry " or.onther.time.he.said " come here let me.hug u your the.closest thing to a.girl" I learned to ignore.it .. Lol But anyways.try telling your husband that.dreams are uncontrollable theres.really nothing u can do and that that doesnt mean ur trying to get bacj with ur.ex
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I delt with dreams like this for most of my pregnancy than they just stopped... I was always dreaming of my exs and couldn't figure out why since they were all abusive and I find them to be a big regret in my life... it was a reminder of what I went through every day it reminded me of what I didn't want to go through again.  Just try and explain to your husband it doesn't mean anything and that he is the one that mskes you happy. Maybe try focusing on something else before bed so you don't dream of your ex?
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Having vivid dreams is normal during pregnancy
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