emotional

[gwenivory]

I'm 35 weeks and my fiance, who I am supposed to be marrying in one week, is so lazy.
Yes, he works but not from daylight to sundown. I understand he's "tired" but as soon as he gets off of work he sleeps for about 4-5 hours then goes back to sleep around 10 pm. he doesn't do a single thing other than that except eat.
I always ask him to do stuff and his excuse is that he is tired. yet he's always sleeping!
we don't ever spend time together. the only time he ever wants to spend with me when he isn't sleeping or eating is for sex. then right back to sleep.
he doesn't even wanna talk to me or spend time. I do everything for him.
I don't know what to do anymore because I'm afraid hell use the excuse when our daughter is born. I can't even depend on him to do anything for me because he puts everything off.

[gwenivory]

sadly, yes. he takes zolaft right now though. @RockRose

[RockRose]

gwen,  your fiance sounds very depressed.  Does he have a history of depression?

[niyap]

I feel the same way my boyfriend works every day to 12 hours never really off so he sleep alot too and we really dnt have sex no more and this more I really wanted to have sex but he was to tired I was so upset I cryed this morning