I was that way at first. I was scare that I was going to have a miscarriage and I had been very sick. It was always a relief to me to hear the heartbeat. There were a few times that they had trouble finding the heartbeat and so it took longer.
That's exactly how I feel
I know exactly how you feels. I'm really fat so it took extra time to find one but once they did everything is fine.
It takes longer because we got extra cushion. The baby is fine. And I didn't feel kicks to about 20+ weeks.
I'm 10 weeks and I'm coming up on my first appointment I'm very nervous as well.