The father of my baby is my ex, we are still undecided as to whether we will get back together or not. Due to our past relationship which was abusive etc it wouldn't be a good idea for my baby in all honesty, even though the last year he has changed his behaviour whilst we have split up.
Due to his previous behaviour my family cannot stand him, to the point they disowned me just over a year ago as I decided to try again.
Even now my father barely speaks to me, I haven't told him I am pregnant yet and part of me doesn't want to as in all honesty the last few years he hasn't been in my life, and I think once I tell him he will be a grandad he will still decide to stay out my life?!
Part of me wants to tell him as he is family, I told my Granny on his side and she said she wouldn't tell him but I need to soon. She wasn't impressed either basically saying you can't blame the child for who the father is. But they will need to accept my ex in my life now. They don't want to hear how he has changed.
It makes me laugh as my father was abusive towards me and my mother when they were married, and changed so why can't my family accept that my ex has changed?!
I ain't sure whether this is a vent, or a need advice post tbh but any comments back would be amazing