husbands and porn

[dodo91177]

I found the search history in my husband's phone to be of some erotic material but not actual porn. We have been living apart for some time now due to his work, should I be worried or upset? Im confused n dnt know how to react, I cry when I remember it but dnt know if its just my pregnancy hormones. I mean im pregnant n already feel unattractive I really dnt need this to make me feel even worse about my self.

[newmommy819214]

I prob wouldnt be too upset atleast he's watching porn or looking at porn like pictures jerking off because he isnt around you than to be out with other women, 99% of men watch porn, its kinda a turn on to me to watch it also for some reason. But yeah id still prob just ask him about it.

[MommyMakwa00]

Porn isn't a big deal, provided its not from the girl down the street if you know what I mean. If its a woman he can see but can't touch then what's the problem?

[niiecy16]

My fiance hates porn .. but i love it ..

[mitchycif]

Porn in my opinion is not a big deal if it bothers you should talk to him about it... tell him how you feel degraded and it brings you down you shouldn't have to be worried about it if he is doing it behind your bakk relationships is about trust between two ppl .. for instance me n my bf went thru the same thing and I would throw his fone but little by little he stopped on his on bcuz I told him how I felt in return I started to do  alot of role playing n costumes to make our bedroom funner ;) now our relationship has been better than ever best of luck and dont sweat it :)

[1st_time_mommyscarbro]

I don't think it's a big deal but that's just me. But talk to him and let him know it makes you feel uncomfortable.

[elenacol]

Me and my husband watch porn together as well. It's not for everyone.  But talk to him about it

[emmalee617]

My boyfriend has porn on his computer and i dont mind at all. We actually watch it together sometimes and doesnt make me feel at all unattractive, id rather him have porn than another woman. I guess its the excitement they find so interesting but you shouldnt worry too much :)

[Skyla22]

Shandy17 you are absoultly right it does change a mans thoughts about sex.. I'm seven months and never been so big its my first baby my boyfriend doesn't even sleep in the same room as me anymore or touch me in anyway all is energy goes to watching porn he knows I hate :/ I'm sorry to all the ladies that have to go through this I know how bad it feels

[c_woody91]

My boyfriend had a horrible problem to the point of he wouldn't let me see his phone and if I touched it he would freak so I looked at it one night and so much freaking pirn I couldn't believe it!!! I told him it was either me or the porn! I don't care about sometimes but everyday is bad and I won't let him put me down by making me feel not good enough. He now let's me see his phone anytime and never has porn downloaded or even in his history... But we still watch it TOGETHER sometimes

[shandy17aug14]

I agree with kramelia you should bethe only one he associates that kind of thing with.  My husband used to watch porn when he was younger and says it can taint the way you see sex. Sex isn't just about pleasure its about love hence its called making love. We shouldn't mix love with lust. Tell him how you feel!

[KaliBrooke]

I don't like how people say every guy watches porn or how if you ask him not to that he will just do it behind your back because that is not true. If you don't like him watching it then tell him. Your opinion and feelings should matter more than anything to him..especially if you are married and he should respect your wishes..vise versa if he didn't like you doing something.

[MotherGooseGirl]

If something bothers you it's not fair to you or to him not totalk about it. You guys are married, a team. Whether or not you live in the same house.

[bkiddo35]

Yeh, guess its perfectly normal. And if you ask him not to do it, he will probably be more careful and delete his history. Just that.

[ericatoday]

I watch porn not because I fantasize about other men its just watching sex is a big turn on I don't even pay attention to what the people look like.

[mommyofalibra]

Tell him how you feel but try not to make a big deal out of it, especially if it's not an addiction or happening too often.

[kramelia]

I honestly dont believe its something women should just brush off. Its upsetting for a woman. Your spouse should be the only one you fantasize about. Tell him how it makes you feel and if youd prefer he didnt tell him

[OctoberBaby5]

I meant to put a smiley face not sad

[OctoberBaby5]

Mine does that :( we actually watch it together lol

[lovingmyson23]

Its just something men do ive found it in my mans and just was like watever lol

[PBaby1]

I would suggest talking to him and telling him how you feel. Good luck.

[ericatoday]

Lots of men watch porn I've asked guy friends about it and they say its not because they don't love their women or find them unattractive its just a release type of thing. Lots of guys do it. If you know ye still loves you then you shouldn't worry about it just talk to him about it though if it bothers you.