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10305243 tn?1410906801

feeling hateful and mad:/

So I talked to my childs father and I said "are you feeding him? No." And he said once again "why would I feed a baby that can possibly not be mine" and it really just makes me so freaking mad, he hasn't been in my pregnancy since i turned 17 weeks and I'm 26+4 now and he says that if its his baby he will care for him, but its like I don't want him to anymore, 2 months ago I was in so much emotional pain and did want him to and now I'm getting over the thought of him missing and for him to just want to come in after makes me so mad and hate him. I don't know what to do I just want to block him from our lives.  If he thinks there's a 50/50 chance then he should atleast put 50% effort. I really don't want him in my life. Or in my baby's. I don't know anymore. I just feel so much hate against him. All this, I can never forget, I can't forgive and I just want him to dissapear.
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10305243 tn?1410906801
Thank you guys :( And since the baby is still inside and he shows how much he doesn't care and I just don't want him in life after he's here. Its so irritating the thought he thinks he has the right cause he's the dad.  ugh I'm so mad :(
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Smh its a baby are you kidding me!! Denying a baby food??send him hell
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Skrew him!! He can't rake your baby unless your a terrible mother believe me there are some kids who should be taken away that are not. Cut him out. You know new sthe father he wants to be an *** that is his own fault
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His threats to take the baby if you don't shareare considered abuse. Keep track of thethe threats because it can work against hhim. But know that whether or not he is there you are the lucky one.
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My daughter's dad left when she was 6 months old. I used to want him back in her life at least but now she's 3, I'm married and we're all so much better off.
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10305243 tn?1410906801
Not really a question. Sorry. Any mothers who had been left and then they just wanna come back like its ok? And he threatens me that he will take the baby away if I don't "share" the baby. Ugh
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