Aww... u all are extremely blessed!!!
I am having my third BOY.... my last child... I would have liked a girl, but I love my future son. I was just bummed that I'll never have a girl. I'm super thankful for a healthy baby boy! :-) I get your feelings....don't let others make you feel bad for your feelings!
No need to feel bad, I'm sure you will love her just like the rest of your children...i wanted a boy with my first child but i got a girl, and now 11yrs later I'm pregnant with my second child and again I wanteda boy, but iI'm having another girl...i still want a boy, but i know for sure its a girl, it doesn't mean I b will love her less, and I love my first child so much, she is my life, and this child will be my life too. If it was a boy, I wouldn't treat him more special or play favoritism.
I think you are going to be okay, as long as you aren't like that actress on the news, she wanted a girl so bad, and she found out she was having another boy and started smoking and drinking, and saying if it was a girl she wouldn't be doing those things... All bad, as long as you aren't like that, you are fine.